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roxanne22
26-02-2007, 16:22
we got a new puppy a couple of weeks ago its a maltease ****zu its really cute but everytime my daugther walks around it yanks at her and starts getting rough on her and i dont know how to stop em plz help
IheartOman
26-02-2007, 16:28
owwww, do you have any pics? I got one a few months ago and I LOVE LOVE LOVE him.
Coco (my puppy) does the same thing to our cat. It is an attention thing. I don't have any specific tricks that I know to stop him except telling him sternly "no" and then when he stops giving him love :yes: It is one of those things you do just have to ride out though because he is so young and doesn't understand just yet. Like anything, positive reinforcement will eventually get through to him :hugs:
we have a maltese x ****zu as well.... they eventually grow out of it but the best thing to do is when the puppy starts to yank on your dd to gentally pull the puppy away and destract it..... we found our dog was like that for approx 12mth.
they are such beautiful loving dogs... our doggy "mr leo" looks like a bear now! and our dd loves him!
IheartOman
26-02-2007, 16:37
we have a maltese x ****zu as well.... they eventually grow out of it but the best thing to do is when the puppy starts to yank on your dd to gentally pull the puppy away and destract it..... we found our dog was like that for approx 12mth.
they are such beautiful loving dogs... our doggy "mr leo" looks like a bear now! and our dd loves him!
PICS PEOPLE! PICS! I love my maltese x shih tzu and I think he looks like a bear now and he is only 3 months old :yes:
IheartOman
26-02-2007, 16:38
http://www.bubhub.com.au/community/forums/showthread.php?t=72044
here is alink for you
here is a pic.. its a little old we havent taken many since our Princess was born.. she is more the show stealer these days! :laughing:
http://i121.photobucket.com/albums/o236/brookeandpaige2005/ourplace112.jpg
prideNJoy
26-02-2007, 17:37
Unfortunately the only thing you can do is teach your daughter to very sternly tell the dog 'no':shame: and then replace it with one of pups toys. It's a pecking order thing, they do it with young children because they see them as one of their own. Pup will grow out of it but you need to make sure he/she knows that there at the bottom of the pecking order. :)
Mel
roxanne22
26-02-2007, 18:37
thanks everybody for your quick responces she is so cute
lovingmotheract
26-02-2007, 18:48
i say have a spray bottle of water with you and when you see him/her going to yanks at her and starts getting rough then spray the dog the dog will stop it then.
good luck.
Unfortunately children & puppies don't mix. Your pup sees your DD as a playmate and always will. The high pitch squeeling that kids normally do just make things worse also as it excites the pup.
Kids don't have an authoritive tone to reprimand appropriately and they do not have much of a size advantage (even over a Maltese Shih Tzu).
Supervise at all times, try not to dress your DD in flowy dresses that will entice the pup the jump, try to teach DD not to run away from the pup as the pup will instinctively chase.
You will have more luck if you teach your daughter to give the pup a command, not a reprimand. Try this exercise:
Show the pup you have a piece of food with a flat palm. When you have the pups attention close up your hand. He/she will try to get the food by licking & biting. As he is trying to get the food say 'OFF' in a stern tone. When he backs off & sits (you may have to say off a number of times at the start) open your palm & give him the food with plenty of 'good boys'. Repeat..:yelclap:
This exercise teaches pups that OFF means back off. When you have mastered it get DD to do it. When DD has mastered it, take it into the back yard & when the pup jumps up at her & nips say "OFF" & when he backs off get DD to reward with a treat. Pup will soon learn that it's more fun not to jump up & nip because I get a treat when I don't!
Best of luck.. :fingerscrossed:
IheartOman
26-02-2007, 21:53
here is a pic.. its a little old we havent taken many since our Princess was born.. she is more the show stealer these days! :laughing:
http://i121.photobucket.com/albums/o236/brookeandpaige2005/ourplace112.jpg
OMG! I love him! That is gorgeous!
PunkyDiva
26-02-2007, 21:59
OMG sorry dog lovers but reading this thread just sent shivers up and down my spine recalling all the horror dog attacks on young children by family pets. This dog/puppy would not stay in my house if this behaviour continued. I'm not a fan of small fluffy dogs as this aggressive behaviour to rule smaller beings seems to be par for the course with them. Give me a Lab/Dane any day.
IheartOman
26-02-2007, 22:04
OMG sorry dog lovers but reading this thread just sent shivers up and down my spine recalling all the horror dog attacks on young children by family pets. This dog/puppy would not stay in my house if this behaviour continued. I'm not a fan of small fluffy dogs as this aggressive behaviour to rule smaller beings seems to be par for the course with them. Give me a Lab/Dane any day.
Each to their own I guess.
I feel that how you view your animals has a lot to do with how they behave as you are their leader. My pets (not just my dog) are family and part of the family. As young babies we grew up with animals and they were treated as part of the family and we never had horrid dog attacks or anything of the sort. Dogs that attack Im guessing are deprived of the love and attention they deserve. It's up to the owner to guide them.
IheartOman
26-02-2007, 22:05
Furthermore, you don't throw your child out of your house for attacking their brother or sister or behaving agrresively... Animals shouldn't be either.
PunkyDiva
26-02-2007, 22:16
Each to their own I guess.
I feel that how you view your animals has a lot to do with how they behave as you are their leader. My pets (not just my dog) are family and part of the family. As young babies we grew up with animals and they were treated as part of the family and we never had horrid dog attacks or anything of the sort. Dogs that attack Im guessing are deprived of the love and attention they deserve. It's up to the owner to guide them.
Yep, what you say is very true.
I've found that people with small, cute dogs do tend to treat them more like children and thus they behave similarily but... if behaviour such as talked about by the original poster is left unchecked any dog, small/large, can cause serious damage, unlike a sibling, and this is why I would rehome it (if the power struggle contd) where there was not young children.
No, not all dogs that attack are deprived off love and attention.
IheartOman
26-02-2007, 22:24
any dog, small/large, can cause serious damage, unlike a sibling,
I strongly disagree with this statement as children can do damage on each other most definietly. Punching hitting biting are just some examples.
I understand what you are saying about shipping the dog off if it continued to jump up on the child but I don't agree with it. When you get an animal you have to be prepared for what comes with it for potentialy the next 15 years or so just as you have to be prepared to take what comes with a child. Before we got Coco we did research into what breeds would suit our lifestyle ect. It is part of the breed that as puppies they jump up and will do so until they are about 1. As the owner you just have to give positive reinforcement and deal with it until it finally gets through to the dog that it is not good behaviour. IMO.
prideNJoy
27-02-2007, 10:38
hi
I would have to say i agree with Shanilee, This is very normal behaviour for any puppy. It is something they will grow out of. The other thing to keep in mind is that if dogs up bought up with children they learn to interact with them appropriately over time, you bring an older dog into the equation with children, that theres is a potential risk.
The most important thing is too take the puppy to 'puppy preschool' along with the children because it is important for the children to not only reprimand the dog but to also teach them commands! There is no point in leaving the disciplining primarily to the parents, because this gives the puppy an excuse to pick on the kids. This goes hand in hand with positive reinforcement with treats. Teething to can be a another reason for biting/chewing pups...so have a few good chew toys on hand and dont have them all out at once, rotate them on a daily basis to keep boredom at bay.
:wave:
Mel
IheartOman
27-02-2007, 11:07
Some great points there Mel! :thumbsup:
Mum2Tyla
27-02-2007, 13:44
Hi,
I am a vet nurse and any breed can attack a child and is not always animals deprived of love and affection often people love there animals too much and in the wrong way so they can become jealous and protective when children are brought into the equation, yes jumping is normal puppy behaviour but it does need to be addressed, or it will continue into adult life, a firm repromand at first if this does not work try timeout ( put the pup in a toilet or laundry for a couple of minutes then let them back out if does the behaviour again repeat the process) can be tine consuming but often works really well, you also want the dog to see the child as dominant so depending on the age of the child they can help feed the dog or you can hold the dog while you feed him, these are jusat suggestion i hope this helps, I must agree that thios is normal puppy behaviour and getting rid of the dog is a very extreme option. Good luck, perservere, be consistent and you will end up with a great little dog
Kelly:ecomcity:
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