should i?

[bubs_and_us]

AF was barely late, so i tested and came up BFP.... didnt tell DP straight away, because i wanted to surprise him.

then i started bleeding, found out i'd m/c..... told DP, and he asked me "are you ok?" i said i was, but im not so sure..... heaps of stuff has been happening lately (so this may just be the icing on the cake, so to speak).... im just crying all the time, i feel so guilty, like i must've done something wrong.... i dont know if i did or not.

and now DP has gone away to the mines for work, im alone, and upset. is there something that i maybe did to cause this? and what im really wondering is, should i be upset, or am i being a total drama queen and blowing this way out of proportion?

[SorenLorensen]

1. no you would not have done anything wrong, for some reason this world can suck.

2. you have every right to be upset, if you were saying you wernt upset, THEN i would worry a little.

life can get tuff sometimes and yes we can say "oh we learn and:ecomcity: " but f**k no, these things happen and we have every right to get upset about it and we should be able to as down as we want, just aslong as we move on in other ways. but we all have something that has a spot in our heart that hurts

[Miss_Vicki]

Oh hugs :( is it possible you have had just implation bleeding?
Hope you feel better soon , as hard as that must be , Sending your happy vibes :)

[Me]

:hugs:

No you couldn't have done anything to cause this.

Please take care of yourself, you have every right to be upset. Take the time to grieve and talk about your loss, it will help the healing process.

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[keenansmummy]

I know exactly how you re feeling, I am currently going through the same thing, found out on wed that I had lost the baby and dh asked me how I was and I said fine aswell

now I am really down and he is working all weekend and going out sat night so I dont want to turn around and tell him im not alright...

:hugs: to you - please dont feel like you have done something wrong because it is completely out of your power

keep your chin up, I wish you all the best for your future

[Bel1978]

I have had 3 M/c and im scared each day that some thing will happen to this bub, My DH took it the worst and wont buy any thing until she is born.

There is nothing we can do, its no one's fault, i hope you can get some smiles back really soon.

[little kingdom]

I'm very sorry that you have to gone through this.. you didn't do anything wrong and it is normal if you feel upset.. I hope that you'll be okay soon..