kewlchicmum
15-02-2007, 16:38
Heya :wave: all I have just been reading some of your posts and I wanted to share my mixed family with you and your thought would be great.
I meet my now dh (we got married 5th Jan this year) two years ago he has a little girl aged now 5 was 3 when I meet her from this last relationship they split long before I came along I didnt have any kids now we have a little baby boy only 3 and a half weeks only my dh works fly in fly out 2 weeks on 2 weeks off and we have his daughter for a week when he is home she is normally pretty good but before ouor baby came along she has said some stuff like I dont have to speak to you if I dont want to and stuff like that its hard cause I am all new to this being a step mum and a new mum I have mixed feeling about it all I love my dh with all my heart and soul and his daughter is great he wants me to think of her as mine but I really cant cause she has a mum who is a lets just say not a very nice person lies all the time and stuff like that. Ummm I do say this being a step mum is hard stuff I think harder so far then being a mum.....I know its hard on my dh as well as he has me to deal with and his ex and daughter and he trys to please everyone he is caught in the middle of it all and its also hard cause he still has to have contact with this ex who I know still loves him and would have him back in a flash even tho she has had another baby to another guy who she is marring some time soon but she has said to him that she would get rid of the baby (who is now 1 I think) if there was any chance of the two of them getting back together and she also asked if my dh was serious with me or just playing with me before they got back together dont get me wrong I love and trust him with all my heart and we have talked long and hard about stuff and I know he loves me its her I dont get or trust I hate having to share him with her and I hate feeling like that will I always feel like that even 2 years on??mmm I wonder:gloomy:
I meet my now dh (we got married 5th Jan this year) two years ago he has a little girl aged now 5 was 3 when I meet her from this last relationship they split long before I came along I didnt have any kids now we have a little baby boy only 3 and a half weeks only my dh works fly in fly out 2 weeks on 2 weeks off and we have his daughter for a week when he is home she is normally pretty good but before ouor baby came along she has said some stuff like I dont have to speak to you if I dont want to and stuff like that its hard cause I am all new to this being a step mum and a new mum I have mixed feeling about it all I love my dh with all my heart and soul and his daughter is great he wants me to think of her as mine but I really cant cause she has a mum who is a lets just say not a very nice person lies all the time and stuff like that. Ummm I do say this being a step mum is hard stuff I think harder so far then being a mum.....I know its hard on my dh as well as he has me to deal with and his ex and daughter and he trys to please everyone he is caught in the middle of it all and its also hard cause he still has to have contact with this ex who I know still loves him and would have him back in a flash even tho she has had another baby to another guy who she is marring some time soon but she has said to him that she would get rid of the baby (who is now 1 I think) if there was any chance of the two of them getting back together and she also asked if my dh was serious with me or just playing with me before they got back together dont get me wrong I love and trust him with all my heart and we have talked long and hard about stuff and I know he loves me its her I dont get or trust I hate having to share him with her and I hate feeling like that will I always feel like that even 2 years on??mmm I wonder:gloomy: