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BabyJoy
01-02-2007, 14:10
On Monday my wonderful cat Heidi died. :crying: I don't care if no one reads this thread but I just wanted to talk about it... I am grieving so much.

Heidi was rescued from the pound when she was a kitten. I was 19 years old and totally in love with her! She chose me (don't they all say that?) when she was the first kitten to jump up to me through the bars of the cage. Heidi had a very lively personality when she was young but she was also very affectionate and loved sleeping on my bed and curling up on my lap at night in front of the TV. In her later years she was much more independent, but I could still rely on her to curl up at the end of my bed at night to sleep. Heidi never roamed like other cats. She always stayed off the road and within our yard. She loved sitting under the car and watching the world go by. In the evening I would call her to come in and she would always obey.
Heidi's favourite food was fish - although her breath was never as bad as I expected it to be!! She also loved raw chicken and mince.

Heidi has had an interesting life. She has lived in many places with me and also lived with my parents for two years when I moved overseas. When she was about three years old, she went missing. I was frantic and searched every street in the suburb where I lived. I put advertisements in the local newspaper and 10 days later got a call from a lady saying a cat had been hanging around her husband's workplace. He was a doctor with a small practise in the suburbs. Now to get to this place from our home, Heidi would have had to cross a railway line, a highway, go through the CBD and then a few streets of residential housing!! I have no idea how she got there, but when I went to check, there she was in the garden looking so filthy and skinny, but she knew me and ran up to me! It was so wonderful to have her back - I cried for joy. When we got home she ate a whole can of cat food in one go, she was so hungry. I often think that perhaps she jumped into the back of a ute and was accidently taken away, or maybe kids picked her up. But she was still wearing her collar with a name tag and phone number! I sent a bottle of wine and a lotto ticket to the lady who rang me - I was so grateful to have her back. The other weird thing about this story is that only two nights before I found her again, I had to attend a meeting at a building across the road from the very spot where she was found. It's amazing I didn't see her that night.

Heidi was such a wonderful companion... she was with me through university, through my first marriage (and subsequent divorce), and then with me when my current husband and I bought a dog and later had our first child. She was there, waiting at home, during every big moment in my life whether good or bad and I will miss her so much.

Goodbye my Heids, I love you and miss you. :hugs:

Jax Tellers Old Lady
01-02-2007, 14:11
Im sorry for your loss. I lost my dog a few years back and its hard its like family. I hope you feel better soon.:hugs: :crying:

Mum2Bug
01-02-2007, 14:15
Aww Shannon Im so sorry to hear of your loss. It sounds like Heidi was a wonderful companion and very much a loved member of the family.:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: Grieve away hun.

Whispers
01-02-2007, 14:17
:hugs: i know how you although i was only 12 when my cat died but i loved her. i was standing out the front of my house when my cat was running across the road and a car hit her i saw everything i neally died i was so upset

damien's mum
01-02-2007, 14:20
Aww, i'm really sorry for your loss :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

Mrs J
01-02-2007, 14:36
:gloomy: Aww Sweetie i know how heart renching it is to lose a pet we lost our 19 yr old dog she was older then me by a year she was my big sister as i was an only child due to my mum being able to only have one. We were upset for months, finally the pain got easier and we moved on. Cassie is still in the backyard watching us and she know we still love her very much as im sure does heidi, sounds like she had a great life, she sure went to a great home lucky little pussy. RIP Heidi :angel: im sure she is watching over you its now her turn to look after you :hugs: It will get easier in time, if you want to cry make sure you cry its liking losing a human loved one u must grieve.

IheartOman
01-02-2007, 14:38
Sorry for your loss :crying:

trinitylee
01-02-2007, 14:58
I'm so sorry for your loss....I think we all know how hard it can be....
~Rambox~ posted this a few weeks ago (I hope she doesnt mind me using it!!) And it made us all cry but it help to feel better about where they are...... Rainbow Bridge (http://www.indigo.org/rainbowbridge_ver2.html)....Get a box of tissues first

:hugs: :kiss: :hugs: :kiss:
Kel

RoarsomeMum
01-02-2007, 15:00
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: Im so sorry for your loss

**Nanny11**
01-02-2007, 17:05
Oh it sounds like she was a lovely cat. So sorry for your loss but glad you had the experience of having her as part of your life :hugs:

subaruforestermum
01-02-2007, 17:11
Pets that are that special to us become part of the family, they grow with us, are there through the good times and the bad, and love you unconditionally if you love them back.....

Not only was she special to you, but you were special to her, and she will remain forever in your life, in memories & in your heart....

:hugs: take care

Shazbutt
01-02-2007, 17:12
I am so sorry for your loss Shannon :hugs:. I can't imagine what it must feel like to lose such a long time friend :(....she sure made it to a great age, and sounds like she loved you very much. :yes:

RIP Heidi.

SJE
01-02-2007, 17:31
Shannon - Big Hugs to you :hugs:

My cat had to be put down due to cancer. I looked after everything else (kidneys, teeth, indoors lifestyle, vaccinations, health checks) and still something took her away prematurely (12 years old)
She was there for many major events in my life too.

After my experiences, I recommend just being kind to yourself and allowing yourself plenty of time to grieve. Maybe put a cat statue in your garden so you can think of her there.
Sometimes getting another pet can delay the grieving or prevent you from enjoying the bonding time with your new pet. So only do it when you are ready, if ever.

Squiggles
01-02-2007, 19:21
:hugs: They make life that much more special dont they with their unconditional love, their antics to entertain us and their company when they know we need it most. Im sorry for your loss - she sounded like a fantastic friend.:hugs::hugs::hugs:

mikaylasmummy
01-02-2007, 20:54
:hugs: I am so sorry for your loss, your story bought tears to my eyes.

I hope you feel better soon :hugs:

1st-timer@34
01-02-2007, 21:13
That's sad. Sorry for your loss. :hugs:

♥My Innocent Angel♥
01-02-2007, 21:15
so sorry for your loss:hugs: :hugs:

mum23girls
02-02-2007, 06:36
Shannon......:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

Hope you are feeling better soon, the love of a cat is something some people don't understand, but I do!

Ashana
02-02-2007, 07:08
I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful cat. I am very much a cat person and have many through my lifetime that i have had to say goodbye to and it never seem's to get easier. I hope you can peace in the knowing that you gave her a great life and were the perfect cat mummy.

Aimee

poodysmum
02-02-2007, 08:17
Im so sorry to hear about Heidi passing.
Big hugs to you and your family:hugs:

Alli

BabyJoy
02-02-2007, 13:38
Just want to say thank you everyone for your kind words. They brought tears to my eyes (again) but also warmth that she's probably watching over me now. :angel: I absolutely loved the Rainbow Bridge - that is just beautiful. I have sent the link to all my friends and family who have lost pets in the past.
Thanks again!:hugs: