Im SOOOO mad with him!

[aden2005]

my DF that is!!!

Im so mad im fuming!!!:mad:
He continues to fall a sleep on the couch night after night instead of coming to bed, i wake up during the night and hes not next to me, so i go and wake him up to which he carrys his slow *** to bed.

Then tonight i logged off and went to wake him up to come to bed with me and he said nah dont want to.

I know it doesnt sound like a big deal, but can u imagine sleeping all by your self night after night knowing your partner would rather sleep on the not so comfy sofa :(

[oleander]

I love having the whole bed to myself:D

[aden2005]

I love having the whole bed to myself:D

Me too :)

But its the fact that he'd rather sleep on the sofa than with me :crying:

[jessgray]

have you asked him whats going on?

my DP started doing the same thing for a little while when i was preg with ds2 it was just coz he ddint want to wake me up. i tend to wake up and not be able to go to sleep:)

[MissSparkle]

My DS often falls asleep on the lounge....not meaning to but because he doesn't realise when he's tired.....I think he has sleeping probs but he won't see anyone about it. I dont mind tho....I sleep better alone.

[Mum&bubs]

I know how you feel. If my DF falls asleep on the couch, I get pretty upset. I like to sleep beside him. I think you should ask him what's going on, why he would rather sleep on the couch. Maybe it's because it's been so hot? I know my DF has been sleeping at the end of the bed lately because it's so hot :laughing:

[KaM]

I used to hate it as well . .Im surprised I was able to conceive Matilda as her "father" more often then not spent all night on the computer while I tried to sleep ..then as I went off to work . .he'd go to bed. .

I used to love the few nights I got to curl up beside him . .

But Id definitely tellhim how you feel . .esp cause it mens so much to you

[javalava]

My DS often falls asleep on the lounge....not meaning to but because he doesn't realise when he's tired.....I think he has sleeping probs but he won't see anyone about it. I dont mind tho....I sleep better alone.

Hehe i think you mean DP haha

[caz]

I'm the one who would prefer to sleep on the lounge than in the bed next to DF :o That's because he goes to bed first and by the time I get to bed he's snoring like a train (He snores that loud, that one time I had the TV up really loud and I could still hear him) I sleep better if i'm on my own, even if that means I sleep on the lounge.

I agree though, if it is bothering you that much, you should say something to him.

[Mummaof2]

Hi aden2005,

I went through the exact same thing. He would say he would be in in 5mins and then next thing i knew i would be getting up to go the toilet and he would be sound asleep on the lounge.

What annoyed me the most were the nights that I would get up and find him asleep on the lounge yet he had found the energy to turn the TV off and get up and go and get a spare blanket and then go back to the lounge. It would have taken more effort to do that then to just come straight to bed.

I started thinking all stupid things and ended up confronting him about as it was eating me up inside. He would say that he didnt know he was falling asleep.....Pffft. You know when your tired and you know when your starting to drift off. He only does it probably once every few weeks now as I put a TV in our room so at least then if he falls asleep he is still in bed with me and not on the lounge and I'm not thinking that he just doesnt want to be with me.

I hope you and your hubby work it out soon.:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[Beany]

Maybe he just doesn't get tired until a lot later and doesn't want to wake you when he does end up coming to bed.

[hayleylea]

My DF falls asleep on the lounge a fair bit. He just nodds off - always has done. He could sleep ANYWHERE. Sometimes it annoys me, I got sick of waking him up and telling him to come to bed so if i wake up and the TV is going and he is asleep on the lounge i just turn the TV off and go back to bed without him. He will eventually get cold or a sore back and realise its better to sleep in the bed :laughing: He hasnt done it for awhile now so maybe i was right lol