the boob and the man

[PgAnon]

i'm a bubhubber undercover because this issue is very personal and kind of embarrassing. i am pregnant and plan on breastfeeding. i am a bit concerned about my sex life with my partner though. i dont want to step over any boundarys here - but during foreplay, stimulation of my nipples is pretty much a must. i just dont know how i feel then about my new baby then sucking on my nipples. i know that when my child is feeding it is far from a sexual act - but something about the two things kind of puts me off. am i normal to feel like this? does this make me weird?

[Lirael]

hmm, well, I used to have alot of feeling in mine, then after my kids I can only feel pain, no pleasure whatsoever, almost as if they are permanently numb.

I was a bit weirded out about breastfeeding to be honest, but once it happened, I didnt even think about my boobs as anything other than my babies milk source.

I was quite funny about sex during breastfeeding, I would always wear a bra:o my boobs were a no go zone except for the baby.

[KarniF00l]

PgAnon - i am the same. Stimulation is definitely a must during foreplay but when you have a baby and start breastfeeding it is a totally different feeling. You don't umm err get 'excited' when you breastfeed like you do during foreplay when your partner gives you stimulation.

[Miaow]

I was quite funny about sex during breastfeeding, I would always wear a bra my boobs were a no go zone except for the baby.

I'm the same - it just doesnt seem right in a sexual way to me - i feel they are EJ's now if you know what i mean

[Mister Noodle]

THey speak the truth. :gloomy:

[PunkyDiva]

A baby feeding doesn't stimulate any sexual feelings for me.

After breastfeeding five babies for a total of seven years I now hate my breasts being touched, they really are just for show now.

[Lirael]

I'm the same - it just doesnt seem right in a sexual way to me - i feel they are EJ's now if you know what i mean

thats exactly what I meant:yes:

[aardvark]

my boobs were a no go zone except for the baby.

Same here. DH gets a bit fed up about it, especially as I have bf my bubs past their 3rd b'day, but tough.

[jamb]

It is so nice to hear these stories, sorry Mr Noodle, my DH knows where you are coming from!

Pre baby, nipples were a great pleasure source for me (and DH)

Post baby (DS 22months) get the hell away from my nipples.

When BF, well they just leaked and i did not find it sexual to be feeding my DH.

After BF, psychologically i can not get past the feeding images/concept.

I am hoping to get over this once the kids are grown, for both our sake's!