Alone at Xmas..

[danielle13]

Hi ladies,
I posted in here awhile back, asking opinions on when to leave dp. Well after yet more fights, more "trying again", just more cr*p basically, we have, today, gone our separate ways.
On Xmas Eve.
So after what one could call a very cr*ppy month, DD and I are now spending xmas eve and possibly even xmas day, alone.

.... And we need some hugs!

[Bron]

Here's a hug danielle. :hugs: :hugs:

I don't really have advice for you, but I do have sympathy. This must be such a difficult situation, and at Christmas too.

You are in my thoughts.

[Shanaynay]

lots of hugs from me to you :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[SweetDreams]

Hugs - I'm sorry this has happened at such a crappy time. No friends/family that you can spend the day with?

I hope life sorts itself out for you soon.

[~rambox~]

Danielle13 - Just remember with a precious little girl like yours you will never be alone she will always be there. I know it is hard as my eldest sons father left us when he was six months old around the same time of year. Chin up it does get better. :yes:

:hugs::hugs:

[munchkin05]

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

i know its hard but i do somewhat understand me and my boy are by ourselfs and the ex doesnt even want to se him

but im now looking at it from all the positive angles now and thats that i have got ds to myself and no matter what as long as we have each other its going to be a great day

ive got a great friend that has invited me to spend xmas day with her and her family so that we wont be alone

is there anyoe you could go spend time with ???

[misskittyfantastico]

I don't have any wise words, I just wanted to give you a few of these :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[the_queen]

:hugs: from me too :hugs: :hugs:

Better to be just you and your DD, and have a day filled with happiness and love, than a day of arguing and bad feelings.

:hugs:

[ogilberry]

im so sorry this has happened right before christmas. but do you know what the new year is so so close...so chin up and i hope lots of love laughter and good things happen to you in the new year

fee

[bekkyboo]

Dani - awww hun... I sending you so many of these :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

As queenie said - at least your day will be filled with love and happiness instead of his cr@p

[danielle13]

thanks everyone..... as i'm sure you've gathered (well, those of you who have read my previous posts), it's been a long time coming. I just wasn't expecting to be on xmas eve.
But you're right, at least i'll have my lovely girl all to myself!

[*munchkin*]

THat's the attitude Dani! It is a crappy time of year for this to happen, and lots of :hugs: from me and my DD :hugs: .

On the upside, at least you can start the new year afresh, with just you and DD and no emotional ****. And like they said, you'll ALWAYS have your DD, and so you'll never be truly alone. You are her whole world.

[Seekrit]

And some more :hugs: I'm sorry that this has happened to you - and more sorry for it being at this time of the year.

[mum2charli]

:hugs::hugs::hugs: Just sending some your way :hugs:

[Desertress]

Lots of :hugs: for you and your DD. Dont let this runi your christmas... just think of it as being able to spend the day with people who truly matter and want to be there . You will be able to have a stress free day without having to worry about all his sh*t.

[mum2littleman]

BIG hugs to u hunni:hugs: :hugs: even if it is just u and ur little one tomorrow remember u are not alone u have the most beautiful and most wonderfull thing in the whole ur little daughter there to share it with you. merry christmas to u and ur beautiful daughter what a brave woman u are sending u all our love ..:angel:

[oleander]

Danielle, these are for you and your girl:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[BlueEyedGirl]

Hope you had a good day today Danni:xmas:

Hope your doing okay, just wanted to send you some :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[jess_live_die]

aww hunni :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

[motherlylove]

so how did your christmas end up going...keep your chin up girl btw where you from???