disappointed (sorry, long)

[Lirael]

*removed*

[jess_live_die]

i think its better to let it out then keep it bottled up inside. i also so believe that you'll get a :bfp: when your both ready and it'll be a great gift.
mayb you could do like a family hour tell him how you fell and then let him tell you how he feels and you both might be able to come to an agreement.
sorry im not much help.

[Percy]

I dont know why, i need to lose weight and would like all these other things to be 'perfect' before having number 3.
then I think what if things never get perfect, what if I wait so long I run out of time?
Im not old or anything but I just am worried Im on a time limit here.

I dont know what to do anymore and Im pretty sure Im just being a sook and should stop whingeing, sorry for being so long I just wanted to get these feelings out.
I feel very sad that I wont have more kids.:(

Hi Cel!:wave:
I could have written that post myself. I feel exactly the same way. I get dissapointed every month and we arent even ttc. I just keep hoping maybe its happened anyway.

Its ridiculous as i am still trying to get over recent medical problems, but so desperately want another one.

:hugs: for you.

[DQ]

:hugs: Cel.

If it is any consolation to you hun, my hubby didn't really want #4 and said a definite NO to a #5. However, here I am pregnant with #5. I sat down and told him how I felt and listened to how he felt. His reasons were valid too, but God bless his soul, he changed his mind for me.

Don't lose hope. Hang in there. I believe everything happens in its own time and for a reason.

Don't sweat the weight thing hun, God knows I haven't :o I'm still overweight from #1 :eek: It'll come off eventually, I'll get there and SO WILL YOU!!!!!!! :smiliedance:

[bronny-jane]

i get the whole weight issue;)

dh said he wanted another in a few years...i didnt want anymore...so we comprimised...i dont want to have big gaps...i want to get the pg stage out of the way...not because i hate being pg...although i do in the last few weeks:D ...but i dont want to have my dd's all in school and be at home with a newborn...im already in baby mode...so i said we might as well start now....

if your dp wants another...then chat about time frames..tell him the truth...theres never a perfect time for anything:D