I'm confused

[tawk06]

Hi girls,

I have a dilemma - my AF is 2 days late (its never late) but no other pg symptoms. I've done numerous tests (last one on Wednesday) but they've all been negative. Did I test too early? Is it possible to get pg but have no symptoms? If it hasn't arrived by Monday, I'm going to my GP to find out what's going on.

Having said that, I would be ecstatic to find out if I was PG (would love a boy) but am also wondering if it would be too close to my youngest (she's 6.5mths) and how on earth do I cope with 3 under 3yrs?

Any advice will be much appreciated.

[sniper wolf]

i wouldnt rule out being pg.
i got only got a BFP 5 days past AF-due date last time, after getting a BFN on AF due date and then another BFN 2 days after.

[Jester]

I am not sure if I am much help but one of the mums in my mothers group was feeling pregnant and her AF was two days late but all tests (3 test 2 brand) were negative... Went to the doctors and he did a blood test and YEAH it was positive.... I think some times that tests can play tricks..

I am not sure about 3 under 3 but I think you will do great... This way they will all be best friends so close!:thumbsup:

[tawk06]

:crying: My AF arrived this morning. I was kind of hoping that I was pg and now that I'm not, I'm so upset and down about it. It would been lovely to have a christmas baby. I guess there's always the next cycle.

[bronny-jane]

sorry you got you af:hugs:

as for dealing with young bubs...you deal cause you have too....its really easy, although stressful sometimes.

i freaked out when i was pg with my second till i had a chat with a lady who had 5 under 4, 1 single, then 2 sets of twins born just over a year between them...:D ...

[tawk06]

I found out yesterday that it wasn't my AF like I first thought but a miscarriage. To make things worse, I didn't get 1 bit of sympathy from my family (my DH on the other hand has been wonderful - came home from work straight away & looked after me).

I know that I will find some way to cope with 3 little ones when the time is right. We've decided to wait a few months before trying again (around March/April if not later).

[sniper wolf]

oh man that's rough!
very sorry to hear that.:hugs:

[SpaghettiMummy]

Just wanted give you lots of:hugs:!! I;m sorry its happened its never happened to me but I can only imagine!
this to your hubby:smiliedance: good on him for being the man that you need!!

and to your family:thumbsdown: :shame: thats terrible so what if its not what they want to hear (I presume this is probably why they are being horrible about it) neither did you so they should be suportive!!

[tawk06]

Hi,

No its not a case of they didn't want to hear it, they just didn't care. My mother's response was 'I hope you're not planning on having a 3rd, because you can't the two that you have'. I kid you not - they were her exact words.

Never mind the fact that my 2 girls are both well behaved most of the time (they have the usual tantrums now and then like most kids but they are not unruly in any way).

I realised there and then, that I have no relationship with my mum whatsoever and never will after that comment. I wish it were otherwise but sadly its not.