So so scared and ashamed...

[lalala]

I am so so scared and ashamed right now. I already have 1 dd and have decided I do not want anymore children at this point in time. Things have not been, shall i say, rosy at all in our relationship.
We had a night out on friday night, a few drinks and 1 thing lead to another. Now I am so scared that i might be pregnant that I am already loosing sleep over it - and I've got a TTW until I can test.
I know some of you out there would die to have a child/another child, but it is really not what i'm looking for in my life.
When is the earliest i can test? I really don't want to feel this shamed and regretful - I just want to be able to get some sleep and feel normal.
:crying:

[Mrs J]

These things happen in the heat of the moment. Im in a TWW atm. We were trying for another but i decided i would like to wait 2 years as DD is only 11 months, But on the weekend we had sex twice unprotected and i know i was fertile, he was supposed to pull out but forgot coz he is used to me being on the pill, im scared coz im not sure im ready yet but im not going to worry to much untill i come to that :bfp: then i might freak. Good luck to you and i hope everything goes to what you want. No need to be Ashamed these things happen, big :hugs: for you. The First day of your missed period is the best, and fmu. GOOD LUCK TO YOU
Ashlea

[jamb]

According to my knowledge (and feel free to correct me anyone!) a blood test can pick up pg 8 days after O.

Do you know if you were round O on friday?? If not you may not even be preggers.

Good luck hope everything works out for you:yes:

[Jo_Jo]

yep true try not to worry to much, and remember there was always the day after pill that you can get from the pharmacy in cases as like your own! i think in a high percentage of cases us mums feel like this...:hugs: to you as it,s not a nice feeling to know the situation is not right but as the girls have said a blood test or just go see the doc even just to let it out too..i know my daughters we will say friends new about the day after pill but did not know you could go and get it over the counter at the pharmacy in addition they ask alot questions as they should, but things happen, thinking of you....jo:wave:

[shorty_851]

The morning after pill must be used within 72 hours of unprotected sex. So this would be no good to you.:no:

Maybe you should wait until a week beofre your period is due. Do you know when you are due becuase on the packets of some they say up till 5 days before your period. So count 2 more days and test.

If you are still worried go to the doctor.