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I just wanted to know if anyone else has had the same problems as me after a M/C.
I had a missed M/C at 7w and at 9w I had a D&C. Everything appeared to go ok, but it took 6w for AP to come after the D&C and I didn't get any signs that I ovulated that month like sore breasts towards the end of the month, I didn't really worry because people had told me that was ok.
But now it is my 2nd cycle after the D&C and I don't seem to be getting any signs that I ovulated this month either. Before I M/C every month I would ovulate on day 14 and by day 21 I had sore breasts but since the M/C nothing.
I don't know whether my body is just used to the hormones or that I am just not ovulating. I know I should be patient but it took us 9months to fall the first time and I just desperately want it to happen again, plus everyone around me seems to be falling pregnant at the moment and I can't help but get down about it.
Can anyone please let me know if you had the same problems?
I can empathise with you. I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks and it took 8 weeks for my period to reappear (which felt like forever) and then my cycles were all over the place (anywhere from 31 days to 46 days). They were actually a bit all over the place before my miscarriage as well. I started using ovulation testing kits to work out when I was ovulating which helped me get pregnant. Maybe it's worth you buying some to see if you are actually ovulating. After 5 months with no success in getting pregnant again I had had enough and went to see my Ob. and he gave me a script for Clomid to regulate my cycle but I ended up already being pregnant so never filled the script. Hopefully things will return to normal for you soon. I can remember how every day felt so long and how much I wanted to be pregnant again. It will happen again for you. Look after yourself and best of luck.
Hi- I have been there too,
My first cycle after the m/c took 42 days, and then they stayed on 33 days for 3 months, then last month just to keep me guessing I had a 39 day cycle.
(before the m/c i always had a 28-31 day cycle.)
Argghhh It makes TTC so hard, I guess we just can't control our bodies.
I hope you get some answers soon .
I use ov test strips to help me work out when I am ovulating! I cant guess because obviously after a mc youre body doesn't know where its at and nor do you - without some help,lol.
good thread marble.
i've just had a m/c & are still going through the bleeding stage, so i was wondering the same thing....
Thanks guys, It's good to hear other women are having the same dramas as me.
I feel a little better now and will definitely be stocking up on ovulation kits from now on.
Although AF was due on Mon and on Sat I thought AF was coming but it never really started, so maybe I'm pregnant now:fingerscrossed: . I haven't really had any pains this month but on Sat morning I did a test and it was :bfn: .
I haven't been game enough to do another test maybe on friday if AF still hasn't come I will try again.
Good luck with it all and I hope it works our for you. I have decided not to count and find out when. We have decided that if it happens, it happens and if it doesn't, it doesn't.
I believe that when the time is right we will fall preg. But I hope it works our well like I said. Good luck and I have my :fingerscrossed: for you.
I to have been through a D&C, affter having a m/c at 10 wks. I din't get a period till 6 weeks after the D&C and my period lasted about 2 weeks. when i normally only have them for 4-5 days, but i'm normally like clock work and i get them every 28-31 days. So Who knows when my next cycle will be, just go with the flow i guess, but very frustrating I know.
m/c - Sep 2006
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