Feeling Anxious, Scared and Emotional

[Mummaof2]

Hi there,

Well where do I start. I've got 9 weeks to go and as I am sure all you mums to be are feeling I just want this baby out. Over the last few days i have been feeling anxious, which i know is normal this close to the end. I have also been waking up constantly during the night scared and worried that I am about to go into labour. Im also worried that my DS is going to decide to come before I have my bag packed and have everything around the house setup and cleaned ready for his arrival. And the emotions my goodness. Last night I got home from work and felt fine and then around 7pm I just started crying for no reason and no longer had i stopped I would start again.

Are any mums feeling any of this.

:(

[dee dee]

Hi Mum_2B,

I think what you are experiencing is normal. You have been through some big changes over the last few months both physically and emotionally. I know towards the end of my pregnancy I was feeling the same way as you. I was very anxious and worried and would cry at the drop of a hat.

Sendind hugs your way and all the best for the upcoming birth of your bub.

dee dee

[hels]

Hi Mum_2B,
I hope you are feeling a little better. I can sympathize with you as I know exactly how you're feeling. I'm not sure if I've ever cried as much as I have while being pregnant and it's all I've ever wanted so I'm surprised. It's like I'm on an emotional rollercoaster.
I have 9 weeks to go like yourself but I have started to pack my bags and doing little bits and pieces around the house and I'm starting to feel as if I'm getting some where so I'm not getting as stressed as I have been. Perhaps if you made a start, you'd feel alittle better.
If you ever want to talk some more, don't hesitate to PM me.
Chin up doll, not long to go now! :)
Hels x

[dec05mum]

Hi mum_2B

With 8 weeks to go I'm feeling a little anxious also!
Like you I am still at work so mostly I feel OK during the day and then when I go home and unwind a little it starts to sink in!!! OMG in 8 weeks I'll be responsible for another human being,theres still so much that needs to be done and so much I dont know!!!and the biggy am I REALLY ready for this lifetime commitment......

But you know at the end of the day I know I'm ready in my heart to bring this little girl home,
I think it is only natural to feel scared at the prospect of all the ups and downs and unknowns of motherhood, Just take a deep breath and know that when your baby arrives you WILL be ready and very able!!!!!!!! :) :)

[Mum2Tyla]

Hi,
I am due december 22nd but imust admit my hospital bag has been packed for about 2 weeks and the nursery was finished when I was 5months pregnant but I am still anxious I think it would be weird if you were'nt this is the biggest thing you will ever do in your life, you are responsible for another human being, I tend to cry and could'nt tell you why, i think some of it is all the hormones in my system because I don't cry easily most the time. I am still working full time and I am so buggered when i get home that I don't have the energy to do anything. Good luck with your birth
Kelly :)

[JanetF]

Big hugs to you! This is an emotional time and those free flowing hormones are a great sign of endorphins getting ready to labour beautifully. This is a great article all about the hormones and chemicals of labour.
http://sarahjbuckley.com/articles/ecstatic-birth.htm

If you're feeling anxiety it can really help to talk about it to someone understanding who knows about birth and pregnancy. A good midwife or a doula can be a wonderful support at this time! You could also put the finishing touches to your birth plan and make sure to do some birth preparation every day so you know that you're as prepared as you possibly can be. I always feel better if I've got a plan and I'm doing something concrete towards a situation, yk? PM me if you want to chat *hugs* And "Birthing From Within" is a really wonderful book that helps with those last minute fears too! I hope you have a beautiful birth! :)