another inlaw vent

[Niki]

im so annoyed at the inlaws it seems they cant do anything nice with out wanting something in return.

df parks his motorbike at their house while he goes to work as its just across the road and they live in a cr@p area. well some of the wedding invites i havent finished yet as i have been feeling very sick and tired lately, so this morning they are waiting out the front when he arrives and tell him he cannot park his bike there until we give them the invite for THEIR friend WTF:mad:

everytime they do something "nice" they always have conditions attched to it and frankly im so sick of it, i wish they would move away so i dont have to deal with their cr@p anymore its really strating and i dont want them to try it out on ds when he gets older

They gave us 5k towards our wedding which had so many conditions on it, they didnt tell us at the time but they always bring it up, im seriously thinking of giving it back and telling them to butt out or dont bother coming

i guess the thing that reall gets me is i have to deal with this for the rest of my life now as they will never change

sorry its so long

[TeamAwesome]

aww hun:hugs: :hugs:
my mum is like this... I cant offer much advice except that we moved changed our phone numbers:laughing: (we moved interstate then back to same state but 13hrs north of her) and have a po box so that limits our contact to a tolerable level for us... never had anyother stress cept her... she used to pull down my Dh and wasnt suportive of a lot of things we did...
things are much happier since we did this... obviously you cant move... tell them if they want it they can come clean your house or something then you'll feel less stressed and can get them done!!
Hope it sorts itself out for you!!
Natalie

aternative is to just take the money and elope :laughing: that'd show them!! cant bring their friends then!!!
Why cant parent realise you want people around you know not people you've never met or barely know? my DH had to invite his dad's side (we managed to limit it to his siblings and partners as he's fom a family of seven I think) and then just a week and a half before our wedding he realised that there were many of his side that DH could walk past them in the street and wouldnt know them from a bar of soap pity he didnt realise earlier!!
Funnily enough they now expect us with a young family to travel to for everything!! we'll see about that cos I might be pg next christmas or have a new bub and I'm going nowhere but to where I want!!

[mum2bubba]

In-laws hey. :rolleyes: :banghead:

Maybe you SHOULD give them the money back esp if they're telling you what to do with it etc. Hope it all works out in the end

[mum33]

they like to put conditions on things?

tell them yes their friend can come, but the condition is they pay for her food, etc at the reception.

as to the 5 grand, tell them they lent it to you as a favour, it will be paid back but there are no conditions attached to it, they dont like it either give them the money back or tell them they are not invited.