Having a bad..... MONTH

[FOURtunate]

Sorry I haven't been in here for a little while. I have been watching you all, and hoping you are all okay. I am having some issues with my donation. None that I can voice here, but would just like you all to know that I haven't disappeared. I'm just being a bit quiet at the moment and will be back very soon, when it's all straightened out.

I am talking to the counsellor at SIVF to get my head around it, and I am feeling a bit brighter everyday.

Thanks for the pm's from those curious people who have so sweetly wished me well. :kiss:

[jo-anne.36]

:) hello fourtunate i would where you have been and iam sorry to here that you have had trouble with your donation and i hope isivf straighten things out qukly and how did you go with you sil birth have you and dh, kids got to meet baby yet xxx jo-anne

[hoping123]

Hiya Fortunate,
I hope you are feeling okay. You are such a genourous person to do what you have done and after speaking to you even for the short time we spoke. You seem to be such a caring and warm person.I hope we can chat again when you feel up to it. The most important ones at this time are yourself and your family. Keep your chin up girl.:hugs: :kiss: email me anytime for a chat.

[NatLeah]

Hi,

I have been reading your posts for some time now, I have finially decided to come out of the closet and post more.

I hope your doing ok... just wanted to say reading about your (and mumof4's) journey has been very inspirational to me personally as a donor to be.

Sorry you are having such a **** time. :hugs:

[hoping123]

Hiya Natleah
Come on outta that closet it's dark in there. we would all love to hear from you some more. I know it can be a big scary place but the girls in here are so supportive.:hugs:

[wa mum of 4]

HI Michelle,
Sorry to hear of you bad time.
I have PM'd you.
:hugs:
Sarah

[NatLeah]

Whoops... sorry I didnt realise cr@p was a forbidden word :cool:

[leisurly]

Hi Michelle

Ah hugs to you, and big thanks for all your support to me it has been overwhelming.

Wish we had a magic wand and make things better for you all, I hope that SIVF can help and maybe your IP might feel better if she could speak to other recipients as I'm sure her mind is just blown over at the moment with such a whirlwind. I know I was and our journeys have been about the same time. Sometimes you fear it is all a dream and you'll wake up, or something has to go wrong, which of course for me it did, but hey thats also life.

So :hugs: to you and also :hugs: to C and A,:hugs:.

Lxxx

[babydreams]

Hi hon,
I wrote a long post on your thread in another forum, so I won't do that again here. Just wanted to say hello and that I'm thinking of you. I hope things get better for you with time.
Take care :hugs:
Babydreams xx

[Tashimoo]

HI Foutunate

I was so sorry to hear that you are having a bad time. I hope the councellor sheds some light for you. Take care of yourself

[aqua28]

Hi Fourtunate, hope you'll be feeling better soon...
:hugs: cheers, aqua

[anna19]

hi Fourtunate

I am so sorry that you are having such a trying time this last month but we are all here for you even if you cant say to much, but just knowing that you have all our support will help i hope:fingerscrossed: .

Also i hope the councellor is helping you the issues at hand.
but my thoughts are with you hear is a big hug:hugs:

take care

anna19

[babydreams]

Hi Hon...haven't heard from you in a while and am just wondering how you are getting along. I hope things are looking a little brighter for you now. We're here for you OK? :hugs:
Babydreams xx

[leisurly]

Hi Michelle

Thinking of you and hope your OK, :hugs: :hugs: to you because your very much an:angel: and don't you forget that.

Lxx

[hoping123]

hiya Fortunate hun. Just a short message to let you know you are in our thoughts and hope everything is okay with you and your family. Look after yourself hun. You are one in a milliion.

[leisurly]

Michelle has added to her name 'So Very tired'

I thought I'd reserect her thread as it is over 4 weeks since she wrote it and I've not heard from her in a while.

While we all seem to support each other as recipients, we can sometimes forget about those who have gone quiet.

Michelle donated to a recipient who has the joy of being a mother next July, something i thought I would have been if my pregnancy hadn't ended before it really got started.

On the day of EPU the relationship changed, I know the recipient has gone through a sudden insecurity about carrying a baby from a donor cycle, but she did advertise and Michelle gave the chance of being a mother something that had not achieved.

I think everyday of how Michelle is going and tears well in my eyes when i think of the heart ache that she is having to experience because she felt she was helping someone. Michelle is an egg donor who has mentioned she would like donate again. But how could anyone expect this mother to go through the heartache again, she had a difficult cycle was in severe pain afterwards and has since had migranes.

Michelle I miss your posts, I miss the lovely person we have all come to know. Hope we will see you again soon

Lesleyx

[wa mum of 4]

Hey Michelle,
A big diddo from me, I have very much missed chatting with you.
I felt very comfortable chatting with you as we were going through the same journey, right up untill the end when it went sour for you.:(

I to have had heart ache from my IP's, no contact makes you feel lousey, I know it is nothing compared to what you are going through.:gloomy:

Just know that you are a wonderful, generious, caring, remarkable indervidual and we think very highly of you and respect your time out.
Please know that we are here for you and when you feel ready to come back we are all a shoulder or sounding post for you.:thumbsup:

Lots of :hugs:
Sarah

[hoping123]

I don't understand how some people can be this way. i know i would be eternally grateful to my donor. They are exceptional people who are giving us reciepents the most genourous gift in the world. we all miss your posts fortunate. we are not all like this person please come back to us hun.:hugs: