Ahhhh is it too late to cancel??(Vent)

[BlessedWithBlue]

Geez this wedding stuff is driving me crazy:mad: i pretty much have everything done and have received all my rsvp's and know what we are on budget wise for the catering and then a few days ago another rsvp turns up at MIL2b's house (it should have gone to ours:confused:) a week late mind you and this person has taken it upon themselves to invite another person and add then to their rsvp. needless to say i am fuming but df just said let it slide and pay for the extra guest that i have never met in my life. And to top it all off one of my bridesmaids has just decided her dress doesn't fit her, she is pregnant and due in feb like me but i have been asking her for the past six months whether it would be easier for me just to hire a dress for her closer to the actual day of the wedding and she kept insisting it would fit with a little altering. Only just to msg me a couple days ago saying that it's nowhere close to fitting and that she now needs to have one hired:banghead: aahhhhhh i feel like i'm going insane why does everyone have to be so difficult???? so we made a day to go have a look and she now tells me she is working that day and cannot come and tells me she has a dress from her cousin that is the right colour and will fit. Sorry for sounding so childish but i'm starting to get stressed and frustrated big time and with only 4 weeks to go it feels like i'm running out of time:(

Okay vent over, i feel a little better now lol

[Billy]

Oh big :hugs: to you sweetie they are pretty stressful sometimes... :fingerscrossed: it will all work out perfectly! :thumbsup:

[mummyof5]

Feel free to vent as much as you need to. That's what we are all here for:D

:fingerscrossed: nothing else happens, and it all comes together on the day.

[InSaneOne]

i can so sympathise. i have only just started to plan and i am already feeling the stress.

[BigGeorge]

Oh you poor thing... what a big stress! But you just have to keep thinking that it will all be worth it in the end :yes: . I agree with you that inviting a guest to someone elses wedding is a bit odd...(and rude!) but your DF is right, just let it slide. And what a big pain in the rear about your bridesmaid not going with your suggestion of hiring in the first place?!?!?!
:hugs: Big hugs to you sweetie :hugs:

[EskimoMumma]

So what else happens in weddings?!?! :eek:

I am surprised you held out this long without venting!

:hugs: to you

[aquarius]

it is INCREDIBLY rude to rsvp late and on top of that to invite someone the bride doesn't even know, and i agree your bridesmaid is v annoying but your df is right, let it slide coz you only got 4 weeks to go, you don't need anymore stress right now. but don't worry, you can do it! and it sounds like you are v organised and on top of things so it will all work out ok, altho i sympathise - i had a lovely time on my wedding day but the actual organising and lead up to it was freakin horrible and i never want to go thru that again! have a great wedding day m'dear :thumbsup:

[Becteria]

My2Boys, all those little issues will be forgotten in one month, see the extra guest is going to see you at your most glosriuosly beautiful best, and will probably end up being a good friend!!!!

My bridesmaids had free reign on their dresses i picked a clour and told them to dress in any shade of it - started to do my head in towards the end but i was so glad i let them.,

Ok so all the little issues FORGET ABOUT
FOCUS ON BEING RELAXED AND HAPPY FOR THE WEDDING AND YOUR LITTLE MEN INSIDE!

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: Just coz you might need them!

[OopsieDaisy]

I know what you mean, we have had a few hiccups along the way too.
As for the late RSVP, I am the kind of person to tell those kind of people to shove it. People who CARE do you not be so rude to 1. Be so late and to 2. Invite a STRANGER!

As for the BM dress, panels can be added into the sides or they can add lace up the back to do it up which means it will expand easily on the day. That is what my dress is having done this weekend. Easily fixed, do not stress!! :D

It is a VERY stressful moment these last few weeks hey!! :hugs:

[DubbaBubba]

Take a deep breath and dont stress, everything will fall into place
I know what u mean its such a stressful time i had major problems with my BM dresses a week b4 the wedding my sisters boobs decided to grow to cup sizes :laughing: and my SIL lost weight and needed to have hers altered lol
i have no idea how i got through it!
the night b4 the wedding i had a huge fight with another BM and she stormed out and didnt want to be apart of the wedding but in the end it all worked out, which well be the same for u.
oh im so glad its over with now!

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

[BlessedWithBlue]

Thanks all!! well the bm actually lied to me about going to work as she is df's brother's girlfriend and they live with df's mum and she was hiding upstairs while we were there and df went up there and caught her out:mad: i just got off the phn with my sister who is a bm also and she is having a tantrum about her dress cause i am swapping them around just to save a bit of money and she says i have no right to do that and we had a massive fight and she is now not talking to me or in the wedding:banghead: just spoke to my mum and she said not to stress about it and that's her problem cause i don't need the stress.

We can't do much about the dress not fitting and i'm over it but the bm is coming over tonite and showing me the other dress her cousin has let her borrow so :fingerscrossed: it fits ok and matches with my other bm- geez i'm not gonna have any bm's left by the time this wedding comes up lol

thanks for the kind words :hugs: they really helped.

[aquarius]

oh good lord you poor thing - crazy bm's!!! but i reckon they'll get over it, deep down they know this is your day and it's their job to support you! i hope the cousin's dress fitted ok and matched everything xx