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AliG
09-07-2012, 08:10
At christmas the Drs discovered a mass in my brothers bowel after 3 operations and giving him a stoma his outlook was good. He had had 8 out of his 12 rounds of chemo and was starting to gain weight and feel good.
Last sunday my Mum had to take him to hospital as he kept throwing up. A few scans were done and it was said he had a mass/blockage as his bag was no longer filling. His plasma count was so low as to be dangerous.
The hospitals stuffed round all week finding him a bed in a bigger hospital but he got there on thursday.
Friday he called all of his imediate family (Mum, Dad, My Sister and myself) He was cheerfull and still walking about going outside for smokes. His colour was getting yellow and he could eat nothing and wasnt suppose to drink but as he had a tube in draining the stomach (he had fecal matter coming up and lots of bile) he was drinking.
On saturday my aunt and cousin went to see him and he was going downhill fast. My sister got there as they were about to take him to surgry My Mum got to speak for 30 seconds on the phone she got to say she loved him.


Stephen died at 4.40pm on saturday the 7th july They had only given him the pre meds and his heart gave out they tried 3 time to resus him.

Im glad it was quick and he isnt in pain but I WANT HIM BACK. Its 20 years since my sister died and now I have lost my brother

Livvey
09-07-2012, 08:17
I'm so sorry for your loss xo

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inertia
09-07-2012, 08:20
I am so very sorry for your loss.

HugsBunny
09-07-2012, 08:25
So very sorry for your loss :hugs:

ABigDeepBreath
09-07-2012, 08:36
I'm so sorry. I can't possibly imagine how you must be feeling and hope you have lots of support around you.

Tainted
09-07-2012, 08:36
I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you have lots of support. :hugs:

Mopoke
09-07-2012, 08:37
So sorry for your loss :(

austmum
09-07-2012, 08:37
I'm so sorry for your loss, that all sounds like it happened quite fast :(

Buttoneska
09-07-2012, 08:39
Oh Im so sorry for your loss - its heartbreaking.

Rest in peace Stephen

2Bboys
09-07-2012, 08:42
So sorry to hear. Best wishes to you and your family.

AllCreatures
09-07-2012, 08:48
I'm so sorry :(

NancyBlackett
09-07-2012, 08:51
I'm so sorry for your loss x

ShanandBoc
09-07-2012, 08:51
Condolonces to you and ur family. So sorry....xxx

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beaniebabez
09-07-2012, 08:54
So sorry for your loss!! :(

OurLittleBlessing
09-07-2012, 08:55
I'm so sorry for your loss Ali :hugs:

anewme
09-07-2012, 08:57
Sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace

Purple Lily
09-07-2012, 08:57
Im so sorry for your loss :(

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happygrl
09-07-2012, 08:57
I'm so sorry for your loss

Bonkers
09-07-2012, 09:01
I'm so sorry for your loss x

Mulva
09-07-2012, 09:03
I'm so so sorry, may he rest in peace.

Isabellabean
09-07-2012, 09:10
:hugs: :hugs: Im so sorry for your loss

LifeInShadesOfGrey
03-08-2012, 21:51
I'm so sorry for your loss xx

3InATub
03-08-2012, 21:59
How devastating for you all.... I am so sorry.

Much love!

xxxx

insanity
03-08-2012, 22:01
I'm so sorry for your loss xx