View Full Version : Im a sngle mum now
Well today has confermed wat my fears were,I have now become a single mum.Im really upset he said he wanted a break and that hed call "time to time to see how i am" he didnt even say hed come ova to see the kids for an hour from time to time.I dont know what to think or even do.I feel pretty upset and hurt and i feel like i cant do this,i am so lucky i have my mum here to support me or i dunno where id be.My poor kids wat is their future gonna be life without a dad:crying: :crying: .I feel like i have noone i dont even have a car to go out and take my mind off things.I just wanna know what the furture is gonna be like but its so uncertain:( .
Hun - :hug: to you firstly...
Things will get better. I was reading your posts yesterday - and even tho its hard now - you will get stronger... You should speak to Queenie - she would be great help to you at this time.
Oh Jaclyn, i'm so sorry :hugs:.
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I've talked to you a bit on msn about it, so i'm not going to relay all i have said....
Just know that i am here if you need anything, anything at all, and i will be over there.. This will make things alot stressless on you, believe it or not, just getting past the pain of what is happening will be hard, but that is what you have friends for..
Keep your head up, be strong, you have two gawjus kids to bring up!
You will have all the support you need here.. and with me!!!
:hugs: Sorry to hear things arent going to well...
Im sure he will be over to see you and his children...Maybe you both just need time...
:fingerscrossed: things will get better soon...
:hugs: I think you need a big HUG!!
I am really sorry to hear that things havent worked out well between you and your partner! I can't imagine how difficult this is for you.
I just wanted to say that I was raised by a single Mum and I think single Mum's are brilliant!! My Mum has taught me to be strong and independent which is something I am sure your kids will pick up from you too.
If you ever need to talk, I am a perth girl...just PM me! :hugs:
Im really sorry to hear that.
You seem to be going through a rough time lately.
:fingerscrossed: That things start looking up for you:hugs:
Just wanted to let you know that although things may seem hard right now it does get easier with time.
I grew up with only my mum and let me tell you it doesn't make my life experiences any worse. Sometimes having one parent instead of two can be rewarding. And at least you have some support there for you as well. :)
One of my closests friends has become a single parent also. She has 3 year old twin boys and an eight year old. She had to move to QLD to get away from their idiot father (He's badly into drugs) and those kids are much better off with out him around. She has now met a lovely guy who loves her and her kids.
Right now you need to be strong for your kids because they are your main priority. The rest will fall into place.
I don't know your situation completley but if you ever need someone to talk to please PM me. I'd love to have a chat with you.
hey jac... :hugs: to you...
as you know I'm a single mummy too... the only thing that prob makes my circumstances a little easier now is that I went through the grieving for my relationship before my bubba arrived, and that I am all she knows and will ever know....
but you're little ones are young... and if there daddy choses to stay involved thats great, but if he doesn't, just know that a loving mummy like you is all they need....
remember too, there are so many people out there that love and support you... family is sooo much more than just a mummy and a daddy...
chin up... :hugs:
Im sorry to here this :hugs:
I really hope that things turn out differently but if not know that you are strong enough to face anything & tackle it head on !
This is going to be a really hard time to begin with but it will get easier :hugs:
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aww hun how awful but dont worry about ur kids futures they still have you
:hugs: Aww jac, im so sorry for you and serena and sasha. Maybe he just needs this time and space to sort himself out. It is not good for you or the kids to be put through the emotional torment of him trying to get on top of things. I really hope that you both work it out eventually and im sure that he will stay in Serena and Sashas' lives they are his kids too and he does love them.
Just remember that just because he is my bil doesn't mean that im not here for you too if you need anything just call, if you need a chat im here and me, leigh and the kids will still come and see you and the kids because they are still our neice and nephew and we love them and you.
Be strong, you know you can do this :kiss: :hugs:
Luv Tan xxx
I'm so sorry to hear that. I know it's hard but try and keep your chin up for your kids. We are all here for you whenever you need us.
Sending lots of :hugs: & :kiss: your way.
You will do an amazing job bringing your kids up because you are an amazing woman.:yes:
Thanks everyone for your support this afternoon im a bit better i went out to take my mind off things,he rang me and he said he is gonna take our daughter out for a couple of hours and said hed come and see me and Sasha.I dont know how long we are going to be a part but i know its for the best.
oh hun im so sorry
please PM me if you want to talk
Im the same as Alicia. I wont repeat everything we have discussed before now but just know that we are here for you if you need us!
I am a single mum-to-be now, and i know that it's hard but we just have to keep our chins up and do the best we can :yes:
Everything is okay in the end, and if it's not okay then it's not the end. And in the end we are stronger aswell :yes:
Sorry to hear about what's happened. Stay strong and don't despair. I'm sure he will make an efforts with the kids and be around for them and help you out. You have a bunch of lovely bubhubbers to give you support when you need it!! Don't forget to post or PM us if you need some words of support to pep you up!:kiss:
i know how hard it is trust me
some days will be good others will be bad but you have the kids to be greatful for
if you ever need to chat im here
one day you will relise it was for the best but i cant tell you when cause i thought i had already seen that day but im back to square one again but as i said you will have good and bad days just dont be affaraid to ask for support
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