How am i suppose to cope?

[EskimoMumma]

Like the title states I don't know how I am going to be able to cope with less acess and its tearing me up so bad. Part of the problem is I don't want to accept that i will be seeing him less and less, I don't want to accept that its stuck to two nights a week, its going to kill me. :gloomy:

I have no idea who I can talk to either about this or where I can go to for help. I don't know if i will slide into a kind of depression or somehow envy my DD and future DD that they are able to have both mummy and daddy around and my DS can'thave that, he cant have his mummy around all the time and its killing me.

Does anyone know where I can go to talk tos omeone about this, whenever he is not with me i am so depressed when it is quiet around here, being hormonal from the pregnancy isn't helping either and i know DP is sick of me by now because there is nothing i can do to get him back.:crying: :crying:

[Jo_Jo]

look i don,t know where you are but there will be local family planning clinic or a neighbour hood house where they even do free counseling or your gp can get you in touch with someone to talk this out with as i know how you are feeling it feels like a part of you is missing but time does ease the pain, my daughter went to live with her dad some time ago she was gone for 6 months and i was lucky to see her every second weekend she was 14 at the time and i was a mess for months i think what kept me going was that well 1 she was alive and healthy and 2 she was getting looked after and 3 that it would not be this way forever and ofcourse 4 my younger son was a god send at the time he was so helpfull and would explain to me mind you he was 10 that it was a stage and no matter what, she loves you and as long as your bum points to the ground you are her mum! goodluck to you and the family as this can be hard, enjoy the time you do have together:thumbsdown::o ...jo

[~Emma~]

I havent been in your situation so I dont have an answer.. Perhaps one way to help with coping is looking forward to the time you do spend together. Although it might not be much time, it will be special for you and your DS

Hugs to you :hugs: