why am I doing this again?

[Sara's Boys]

I just need to vent.

I have an almost 14 month old and I am into my 33rd week of this pg and I am so sore and tired and grumpy.I can't even lift my son without shooting pains going right thru me. I really hadn't considered how tough it would be and my dh won't let me leave DS with my mum overnight. And he has been waking 3-4 times a night. I just woke up and I am thinking to myself...why the hell am I doing this, I forgot...I know I am only seven weeks away from a beautiful boy but geez this is really hard.

[tweedledee*tweedledum]

:hugs: to you, i am in the same boat as you but with one extra! my twins will be just on 12 months when number 3 is born and already I am panicking. why won't dh let you leave your son with her? if i was you, i would just do it and if he gets angry tell him that the doctor suggested it so you can rest and not put your pregnancy in jeopardy. that might change his mind? i have none of my family over here, so it has been very hard already, but i am going to have a government organised person to come and visit me twice a week when the number 3 is born to give me some help. are you able to get this support also?

[EskimoMumma]

Hey there, big :hugs: to you. I am only 24 weeks pregnant but i am starting to find it hard to lift my DD (who is 10months) I have to say, i am the one who refuses to let DD go to MIL"s...but why wouldnt your DH let you have DS at your mothers??

If he wont, pack your bag and go to mothers for the night :rolleyes:

I hope things settle down eventually and you can get some much needed rest :hugs:

[Sara's Boys]

He doesn't like me leaving him their because, despite the fact they are so good to DS, he feels funny, as my brother has a intellectual disability, and he doesn't trust him as much as my folks do. I know that my bro is a bit unpredictable but not in any bad ways. And also his other reason is selfish, he only sees DS one or two nites a week, cause he is always asleep when he gets home, he just hates it if he cannot see him in the morning.

He is going to have to deal with it though, because I am going to lose the plot if I dont get some rest. Plus DS will be with my parents whilst I am in hospital any way.

But DS is finally having a nap and I have quiet...aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh.

Glad I am not the only one. No one seems to want to hear you complain about your child/pregnancy, it is as though you should just be thankful and never have a bad day some times. What would I do without bubhub!

And twins....babe I cannot even imagine...:hugs: right back to both of you.