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LexnLux
27-11-2011, 21:25
Hi, I'm gonna put this out there again, anyone?

We are TTC at the moment.

:-)

miss87
27-11-2011, 22:00
Sorry LexnLux, I'm in Brisbane, though my family do live there and my Mum knows a couple there who would love to get pregnant. My Mum told me that they don't allow fertility for same sex couples in SA?? Is that true? Are you doing home insems?

LexnLux
28-11-2011, 08:36
Hi! Thanks for replying :-)

Yeah, we are trying home insemination, hopefully we will have success for Xmas. You are right, SA made it illegal for ivf etc. for single and lesbians - we had started with Melb ivf earlier in the ear but it was all too hard and expensive flying back and forth :-( but we have a great donor (friend) now and it's much easier to try at home for a while.

I am a bit nervous about being alone in the woods though! As I don't have any pregnant friends (straight or gay lol)!

miss87
29-11-2011, 18:27
Hey :)
Wow, I can't believe they did that, it seems so harsh. Flying would definitely be expensive!! Plus the cost of IVF on top of that! At least (I think) if you don;t have any luck with home insem's they might be able to consider you "medically infertile" and let you access it. :fingerscrossed: you don't need it though!
Pregnancy can be a pretty scary time, I don't know any pregnant people either, but family and friends who have kids have been super helpful. We did a tour of the hospital and there were a few other pregnant ladies there, so if you are a little more social than I am, you could take that opportunity to meet new pregnant friends.
When do you start?? I hope it goes really well for you :)

LexnLux
30-11-2011, 08:37
Thanks! I guess I better try to be sociable lol or else I will have to be on here all the time asking everyone questions in Internet lands. Thank god for the Internet, hey?

We are going to try our first home insem in about 20 days. I am using the power of positive thinking and saying that it'll "take" first go :-)

Tarudy
30-11-2011, 11:57
Hey,

My partner and I live in Adelaide. We did home insemination and conceived first cycle, Our lil girl is due in 4 1/2 weeks.

LexnLux
30-11-2011, 21:56
Tarudy - that's great! Congratulations :-)

That's also encouraging for us - as I am really really really wanting to get pregnant first time. It's good to know it can happen!

I bet you are so excited!

It's also good to know there are other same sex couples doing this DIY in Adelaide!

miss87
01-12-2011, 22:56
Aww yay I hope it goes well for you - fingers crossed! We got pregnant on our second attempt, despite my having two medical conditions notorious for causing infertility. Positive thinking :)

becnbubs
01-12-2011, 23:00
Hi I'm not same
Sex couple but Just wanted to jump in and say goodluck!! I'm in Adelaide also!!

LexnLux
02-12-2011, 11:20
Thanks Bec!

:-)

LexnLux
02-12-2011, 11:21
Where about is everyone in SA anyway?

I'm a north-east sider myself.

astrogal
10-12-2011, 19:22
Hi we are a same-sex couple in Adelaide. We have an 18 month old boy and I am currently 16.5 weeks pregnant with another lil boy. We did home inseminations also. GL and fingers crossed it happens soon :)

LexnLux
11-12-2011, 09:26
Hi Astro. Congratulations!

We are trying this week!!! For the first time. I have fingers and toes crossed it'll work first time.

:-)