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captainscaptain
26-11-2011, 07:48
I had my DS in April this year. I was 19 when I fell pregnant - complete accident. I mean, I've ALWAYS wanted kids but I wanted to do it "right". You know, study, have a career going, marry a nice guy and have a family.

Unfortunately it didn't happen like that at all. I don't have much study under my belt, no career and no man, let alone husband! So I'm planning on picking up where I left off in a couple of years when DS is old enough in my mind to go to daycare a couple of days a week.

That means no more kids in the forseeable future...probably 8 years or something. But now that I've had DS a reeeaaalllly want more babies! Not only for myself (well, mostly haha) but also to give DS a sibling.

It's driving me crazy. Anyone else??

BekBek
26-11-2011, 08:14
I was in the position when i had dd i was 19 had all these plans to start a career an travell but it didnt turn out that way. Was also on my own an yes i really wanted more kids when dd was a baby. But things get harder so changed my mind after a while. I have met an amazing man now an my dd is nearly 5 an i am expecting baby no.2 an so glad now for the age diff an so happy where i am at right now in my life.

captainscaptain
26-11-2011, 18:21
yay! makes me hopeful. :)