Miscarried nd feel alone :(

[Cherize93]

I found out the 26th of September that i have miscarried, at that time i was 11weeks pregnant when i went back for an ultrasound they told me that the baby's heart stopped at 9weeks.. my body kept the baby untill the 26th of September when i was 11 weeks. it was a planned baby for 14 months i wanted to become a mum so bad then when i fell pregnant i was over the moon.
My six week scan showed a healthy heartbeat but it was all a lie :(
i found out that the baby was sick nd i had to get an emergency D&C done.. i miss that baby so much!!the pain i go threw is so unbearable all i want is to be a mother i see all these mothers who cant look after their kids but they still have kids nd i cant help but to feel so numb of pain im so disparate for a baby that i would steal a baby lol me and my husband aren't sure whether we should try again or not bother because we are both way to scared of loosing another baby :(!

I dont know what to do anymore i feel so hurt and numb a big part of me is missing nd it'sthe best part of me what do i do ? do we just try again nd hope for the best??:'( :confused::confused:http://www.bubhub.com.au/community/forums/images/smilies/confused.gifhttp://www.bubhub.com.au/community/forums/images/smilies/crying.gif

[Mrs Molly Coddle]

Oh sweetheart :hugs: I am so sorry for your loss :( you sound devastated :(
It is up to you and your DH to decide where to go from here, but never lose hope. There are many women here, including myself, who have had losses then gone on to have healthy pregnancies and babies. :hugs:
I'm so sorry again :( be kind and gentle to yourself xx

[MsTruth]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss :hugs:

Take all the time that you need to heal, there is no strict timeline, it is completely up to you and your partner as to when/if you try again.

Maybe talking to a grief counsellor will help?

Take care

[Angelmummy82]

I am so sorry for your loss, what you are going through is so painful.

I know the thought of trying again is terrifying. Don't think about it too much right now, give yourself some time to grieve and your body a chance to recover. The human spirit has an incredible ability to survive and grow stronger.

No mummy should lose their first baby, it means that the experience is forever changed. There are lots of mummy's here on BH who have gone on to have beautiful earth baby's.

You will find lots of support here.

Big hugs to you at this terrible time xx