Clementine85
06-09-2011, 23:23
Let me try to shorten a long drawn out story...
I've been seeing someone for over a couple of months. We aren't official as such but we kind of are.. (like an unspoken thing.) Anyway.. We've been using contraceptive methods and a couple of times i used the morning after pill. It messed with my hormones so much i went to the doctors to get a script for the pill. I got the script straight away waiting for my period to come, but alas it was over a week or so late (5 weeks). So i took a home test and it was negative. I knew i wasn't pregnant but i took it for his peace of mind.
A week later (6 weeks) i take another home test (on father's day, won't forget that one!) and the test was positive. I then booked in for the doctor the next day and got the confirmation by the evening.
I went and told him as soon as i found out. He wasn't overly thrilled as he already has a son he does not see, and i knew this would be the case. I don't blame him and i was so scared to tell him, but thought it was the right thing to do. He dealt with it much better than i thought he would but obviously does not want me to keep it, but he has told me he will support me no matter what i decide. Which i honestly think is not the case. We've talked about the options and will continue to do so. I would love it if he was to be a part of the child's life, but this will probably not be. I'm just grateful i have an amazing support system with my family and my close friends.
I don't think i can go through with an abortion. I am very pro-choice but i myself could not do it. I do however feel guilty about bringing this on him. =\
I/we haven't told many people except for my parents (who have told a few people), his mum and a couple of friends of mine. All of which have been supportive about me keeping the child and told me that ultimately it was my choice. But i am so over-ridden by guilt! I just want to make everyone happy!
Well that was a bit of a rant!
I've been seeing someone for over a couple of months. We aren't official as such but we kind of are.. (like an unspoken thing.) Anyway.. We've been using contraceptive methods and a couple of times i used the morning after pill. It messed with my hormones so much i went to the doctors to get a script for the pill. I got the script straight away waiting for my period to come, but alas it was over a week or so late (5 weeks). So i took a home test and it was negative. I knew i wasn't pregnant but i took it for his peace of mind.
A week later (6 weeks) i take another home test (on father's day, won't forget that one!) and the test was positive. I then booked in for the doctor the next day and got the confirmation by the evening.
I went and told him as soon as i found out. He wasn't overly thrilled as he already has a son he does not see, and i knew this would be the case. I don't blame him and i was so scared to tell him, but thought it was the right thing to do. He dealt with it much better than i thought he would but obviously does not want me to keep it, but he has told me he will support me no matter what i decide. Which i honestly think is not the case. We've talked about the options and will continue to do so. I would love it if he was to be a part of the child's life, but this will probably not be. I'm just grateful i have an amazing support system with my family and my close friends.
I don't think i can go through with an abortion. I am very pro-choice but i myself could not do it. I do however feel guilty about bringing this on him. =\
I/we haven't told many people except for my parents (who have told a few people), his mum and a couple of friends of mine. All of which have been supportive about me keeping the child and told me that ultimately it was my choice. But i am so over-ridden by guilt! I just want to make everyone happy!
Well that was a bit of a rant!