When?

[muls]

Hi guys,
Just a few more questions. I am ready to start again asap but am still bleeding. I have been bleeding for 9 days (2 heavy).
Does anyone have a rough idea about when this could finish?
I was also wondering when did everyone go back to work (if you had to)?
I have been off for a week now but still break down so easy. Not evryone at work knows and I don't think I want this information to be common knowledge (or is it better to tell people?).
I want to try again asap as this would help me to keep focuses on something other then my grief.
Really not coping today sorry guys.
:gloomy: :crying: :gloomy:
Me24
DH25
1 angel (m/c september 2006 edd would have been 23rd may 2007)

[Adria]

Hi there, im so sorry for your lost, i know how it can be.... i still find it hard.
You never metioned if you had a natural m/c or a d &c.
I had a d & c and went back 3 days later to work. In saying that i only work 4 hrs a night and im casual. As much as we could have made do, i prefered to get back to earn some money. If i had my way, i would have had a week off.
It was a little painful going back to work, as only the manager and 2ic knew, but they got me to work with the lady that was 30 weeks pregnant:gloomy:. A couple of other people made comments about me having time of work and doing nothing. Of course they had no idea what had happened and i didn't want to tell them, so i shurgged it off.
I did burst into tears a week later at work and later confided to someone else. I asked those who knew not to say anything as i didn't want the pity from those or be treated differently.

As for the bleeding mine lasted about 14 days, mainly spotting for the last week.
Thats just what i did, good luck with your discision and pm me if you want to chat.
Mandy

[Jinglebells]

Hi Muls, :hugs: , with my last miscarrage I bleed for about 12 - 14 days, it just gradually got lighter and lighter, some people do bleed for a little longer than that though, :fingerscrossed: you don't bleed for that long, we tried again straight away even when I was still bleeding a little, was more like spotting, I was only between 4 - 5wks along when my miscarrage happened, Good luck with everything

[muls]

Yeh i was spotting for about three days, then light bleeding for three days, then one day of heaps of clotting, then spotting for another two days and now i have started to bleed like a period for the last two days??????
I guess everyone different.
I m/c naturally.

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