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I'm so angry as i just got off the phone to my so called 'best friend'
wow wasn't she ever pleasant to me i soon worked out why when to my surprise the wonderfull father of bub..my ex shouted out in the background these words exactly - 'I won't be at the little peice of ****'s birth i'm going to my mates 21st'..and 'i was hoping you had miscarried' after i heard that i proceeded to tell my best friend..what a great friend she really is and she should be proud of herself and hung up.
I feel like killing them both.. especially DARLING father:banghead: :crying:
Who does he think he is talking about MY BABY like that:mad:
I think its sad when people come into parenthood reluctantly, which is sounds like is the case here.
Or did he just change his mind afterwards?
Anyway, what a jerk, you are better off without him.
aww hun :hugs:
how rude is that, Grrr:mad: i would be so mad too, your friend doesnt sound like a friend at all
dont worry about them u will have ur bub and thats all that matters
:hugs: forget about both of them.
You'll have your bubba soon, then no one else will matter :)
~EmsMum~
27-09-2006, 11:24
oh hun thats horrible
sending big hugs your way :hugs:
KarniF00l
27-09-2006, 11:26
Woah!! He sounds like a great guy :rolleyes: as for your 'friend' i wouldn't worry, they obviously deserve eachother.
Keep your chin up! and remember you have other precious thing's to worry about, like your baby for instance :)
She is not your friend and he is a jerk!!!
Grr better off without both of them, now you can look forward to making nice new friends :D :hugs:
Mummy-2-2
27-09-2006, 11:43
He's the piece of s***. dont let him upset you and when bubs is here, dont let him upset them either.
The baby is innocent and who the **** is he to call it that?
Id take him for everything he doesnt have and more. b******.
OMG what a peice of work!!!As for your "friend":shame:
Ditch them both NOW
LittleBoysRock
27-09-2006, 11:55
OMG!! I just want to give you a hug!! :hugs: :hugs:
He sounds like a waste of space and she sounds like an enemy not a friend!! :banghead:
I hate that there are people out there who do things like this to other people....dont worry Karma will bite them in the A$$ someday soon! :laughing:
I hate that there are people out there who do things like this to other people....dont worry Karma will bite them in the A$$ someday soon! :laughing:
Oh yes... believe me, from someone who's been there and done that, Karma is the best equaliser ever.... and you don't have to stoop to their level!
Remember, happiness is the best revenge.... forget about them and concentrated on your gorgeous baby girl growing inside you....
You can be sure that they'll get what they deserve soon enough in one way or another, and most of all, they'll miss out on the beautiful little life that's just around the corner....
*~alegna~*
27-09-2006, 12:38
OMG - MMMMM I have got a few nice word running through my head at the mo'..that I won'y say:banghead:
I will just:hugs: & :kiss: you & say.......as hard as it is to do..it takes more time & energy to be miserable that it does to just let it roll & be happy with you & your soon to be little mate!
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Milliner
27-09-2006, 12:59
Big :hugs: to you. You don't need people like that in your life.
Thanks guys..
you're all so supportive:) I know he's not worth it..
havn't even had my baby girl yet but i feel like i could kill for her.
Sarah I understand how hurt and angry you must feel right now especially with your 'friend' who I would be dumping. Honestly with a friend like that who needs enemies. When you have your bub you will find the opportunity to make a whole new set of friends so make sure you join a mothers group. You don't need human trash like that in your life. Hang out with better people.
As for your ex, it is disgusting that he could talk about his own child in that way. He is just a piece of garbage and I am sure as your lovely baby grows up she will come to that conclusion too so it really is his loss. It certainly takes a lot more than sperm donation to be a father. Just make sure that loser pays child support.
*~alegna~*
27-09-2006, 13:14
Thanks guys..
you're all so supportive:) I know he's not worth it..
havn't even had my baby girl yet but i feel like i could kill for her.
Good Girl!...Just keep thinking like that hun, nothing else in the whole world will matter the moment you lay eyes on her beautiful little face...you'll see
He's the one missing out NOT you!:yes: :hugs:
BlueEyedGirl
27-09-2006, 13:50
He's the one missing out NOT you!:yes:
Totally agree.
:hugs: &:kiss: to you
SamanthaJane
27-09-2006, 14:02
Gosh... if i say what i really want to say my post would be full of *** ****** *****, ******!... ******?! ******!! ******!! *****?! :banghead: :mad:
But, i shall keep it nice and simply say : It is his loss, not yours.
Keep smiling hunny, not long now and you'll be holding that precious bub in your arms!!! :yes:
oleander
27-09-2006, 22:38
Well, look on the bright side. He dosent want to come to the birth and thats a good thing because you wont want him there anyway. Tell him to have fun at the 21st and hopefully he will drown in his own p!ss.
TTannyaa
27-09-2006, 23:00
What goes around comes around, they'll both get what they deserve. Big :hugs: to you and your little one.
Grizabella
27-09-2006, 23:02
Well, look on the bright side. He dosent want to come to the birth and thats a good thing because you wont want him there anyway. Tell him to have fun at the 21st and hopefully he will drown in his own p!ss.
I agree totally. What a ******. As for the "friend" good riddance to bad rubbish. She can have him. Doesn't sound like she deserves any better.
Wow,what a jerk.Thats putting it nicely.And as for your "friend",well,she's not much better.:devil6:
I agree with the others,it's his loss,not yours.
So chin up,you've got a gorgeous baby on the way,and the two of you will be just fine together.:hugs:
reAllytee
28-09-2006, 00:28
Definately good riddance.
Never ever let either of them back into your lives !!!!!
They do not deserve a second chance after that & saying those thing pffft they are obviously low lifes !
Life is just starting for you & your little one who will be here soon so dont let any morons ruins it for you !
:hugs:
Hugs to you. What a b**** and a**h***. how dare he says something like that about your little bubble :shame: and what a friend she is.
ashleerose
28-09-2006, 05:20
I wouldnt worry, you have already gotten the best revenge you could ever have had.
Why?
Well number one, if you ex is with your best friend (good luck to them both afterall, he sounds like a great catch and chances are whatever he did wrong in your relationship he will repeat again as you know history repeats itself).
So where you are now your best friend will find herself sooner or later.
Number two:
Time to wipe him completely out of your life, if possible move away (far away),
trust me if he wants no part in your daughters life now he isnt worth the heartache and youd rather he didnt fight you through family law court as he might try this tatic in time when he realises a) what a idiot he has been and b) just to be an *** to you.
Number three:
Get that childsupport sorted out asap (although you get stuff all if he is on government benefits do it anyway afterall it will be a constant reminder to him and also should he find work you will be much better of).
He most probably will in time come to his senses although highly unlikely and then you can send him running.
This guy reminds me of my ex except the thing he is with wasnt my best friend and he was with her within a week of me leaving (says alot for our marriage and our two kids) yep now she is just as unhappy as i was and silly cow had to have a baby to him as he made her feel so unsecure, and he of course is just as unhappy as he went around bad mouthing me to everyone and anyone and now realises just what a good thing he had with me.....
Dont ya just love karma.
Good luck, chin up bubs and you can do far better without him in your life.
What a complete D**k. I feel like killing him myself. how dare he speak about ur (and his!) baby like that. He can rot.
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
mum2littleman
30-09-2006, 23:34
Tell him to have fun at the 21st and hopefully he will drown in his own p!ss.
:laughing: lol u crack me up:laughing:
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u are so much better off wit out him, like everyone else said when u hold ur little girl nothing else will matter u are the one that is going to have a baby to love and hold for the rest of ur life and u know ur always going to be loved back..
so hold ur head up high dont let anyone make u feel bad because in the end they both ur friend or should i say ex friend and bubs dad miss out!:hugs: &:kiss:
ARGH WHAT A TOOL!!! DH got so angry ready the thread. What kind of a man treats and speaks to a woman like hat. Especially the woman carrying his child. again, what a tool. Good riddance to bad rubbish.Definately get onto the whole child support issue and i know karma will com eback and bite both of them. What kind of woman would stand by a man who speaks about his child like that? She is clearly a tool too! If you ever need to chat pm me!
pookiesossige
02-10-2006, 07:26
Remember, happiness is the best revenge.... forget about them and concentrated on your gorgeous baby girl growing inside you....
Oh yes. Later on, if you bumped into them for example, I'd be making it very clear just how happy you are and how miserable they appear to be! Then I'd move away!!
Resolve NEVER to let these people back into your life. Don't allow yourself to become isolated- go to your mum's group, meet decent people, then NEVER look back!!
awww hugs for you:hugs: ... its tough i know, but trust me sometimes its easier on ur own
ps: he's a weed i'd wanna kill em to!
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