Not sure what to ask?

[lavenderpegasus]

Well I'm off to the Dr's tomorrow. I want to ask her what is next if DH and I don't fall pg soon. I'm not sure what to ask her to do, or what to expect, actually I just want to go and beg her to push some button that will just fix everything.
The last time I went to the Dr after the m/c she told me everything will be find and that we would fall pg as soon as we had time... But how long do we have to wait before wanting to make sure everything is ok. What should I ask my dr, what are our options? I just to stop everything and just breathe.

I'm just clueless.:o

[Lunar]

Oh sweet, try not to get so uptight about it. I know it is hard but you really do need to relax.
You know you can fall pg it is only a matter of time. I really don't think there will be anything they can do as you have been pregnant, and it has only been 7 months since then. Have you tried OPK's? That is how we fell with Kailah. We were trying over 12 months to fall with her but had 2 m/c's in between.
It WILL happen.
Keep that beautiful smile on your face.
:D

[*Sparkles*]

I was in a similar position a couple of years ago. I moved Interstate and went to a new doctor and insisted on a referral. We had been TTC'ing for many years without success. The doctor gave me a referral to the Royal Womens Hospital, Reproductive Services. They then carried out routine checks on both me and DH and it was after that we found out about our fertility issues and took the appropriate course of action.

I have read other member's TTC diaries and a few of the ladies have been to fertility specialists and are now having cycles with clomid and/or IUI.
Maybe you could ask your doctor for a referral to a FS to start with?
I think the thing is to be insistent, too many times I was told "keep trying for another 6 months" and looking back, this only wasted us many precious years :banghead:

[lavenderpegasus]

Thank you Lunar and Hels*Bels, for your advice, appointment is at 9.30 so I guess i'll just fall at my dr feet for some reassurance.