Cleigh
19-06-2011, 10:51
My EX (FOB) came back to Perth somewhere over the past 2 days. He wasnt suppose to being coming back until August, but apparently decided he would come back earlier. He only told me of this like a day or two before he left to come back.
He came around last night to pick up his DVDs and a few other things I said he could take of 'ours' that I didnt want. I was a little ticked that he texted me to ask if he could come get his dvds....And see the kids for 5 minutes while here. Like the kids were a last thought to him. Whatever.
So he came around and I intoduced my lovely DP to him, DP was a nic guy and held it together well.
It was ok. Nothing special really. I was kinda nervous about it, but both were very cool about it.
FOB will be having the kids next weekend at his fathers (the kids pops) so they have a chance to get to know each other. Im really nervous about FOB to have the kids, but at least he himself admits he has no idea what to do lol
No point to this post. Just getting things out. DP still stuggling with trust and insucruities. I hope for one day they will settle down a bit.
There was no sparks flying last night when I saw FOB, no stirred emotions. All I thought about was how god damn lovely DP looked and smelt. I dont doubt my feelings for either of them, I love DP. I have never been so happy before. Never been treated like a sexy princess :P
FOB...I dont really feel anything for. Like, I dont even feel respect for him. I loved seeing my boys hugging their dad and thats about it. I wouldnt give a rats bum if FOB wasnt in the boys life. It doesnt take a mother and father to raise a healthy and happy family, it takes a loving enviroment, caring people. Weather they are the mum and dad means nothing. My boys have that. They have alot of people who love them and Im proud to be their mummy.
Ok I will stop rambling.
He came around last night to pick up his DVDs and a few other things I said he could take of 'ours' that I didnt want. I was a little ticked that he texted me to ask if he could come get his dvds....And see the kids for 5 minutes while here. Like the kids were a last thought to him. Whatever.
So he came around and I intoduced my lovely DP to him, DP was a nic guy and held it together well.
It was ok. Nothing special really. I was kinda nervous about it, but both were very cool about it.
FOB will be having the kids next weekend at his fathers (the kids pops) so they have a chance to get to know each other. Im really nervous about FOB to have the kids, but at least he himself admits he has no idea what to do lol
No point to this post. Just getting things out. DP still stuggling with trust and insucruities. I hope for one day they will settle down a bit.
There was no sparks flying last night when I saw FOB, no stirred emotions. All I thought about was how god damn lovely DP looked and smelt. I dont doubt my feelings for either of them, I love DP. I have never been so happy before. Never been treated like a sexy princess :P
FOB...I dont really feel anything for. Like, I dont even feel respect for him. I loved seeing my boys hugging their dad and thats about it. I wouldnt give a rats bum if FOB wasnt in the boys life. It doesnt take a mother and father to raise a healthy and happy family, it takes a loving enviroment, caring people. Weather they are the mum and dad means nothing. My boys have that. They have alot of people who love them and Im proud to be their mummy.
Ok I will stop rambling.