feeling like i want to run away

[blaykendtahneemum]

last week me and my children had to leave our home due to violence from neighbours, we r now staying with MIL. the police had to move us. my son now has started wetting his bed and pants, having nighhtmares. me myself just cries and cries. im finding it all so hard to deal with. i feel like i wanna runaway. seeing my son go through this is all so hard. i feel like i cant be around both my children. i feel so bad cause at the moment im pushing both them away. i went to leave both my kids at my MIL. how bad of a mum am i.:crying: things are soo hard i have no friends and not much family to give me some advise or a helping hand. i really dont know what to do. :crying: my kids are my world but with all the violence i experienced im scared to be awake if and when i wake up i cry. im a bad mummy. staying at the MIL dont help cause i dont get along with her.. but i have no where else to go.. i have noone..:crying: :crying:

[wannabemum]

hunny :hugs: to you!!

Thats horrible that you had to move due to violence from your neighbours! do you have any one else that you could turn to apart from you MIL, anyone??? I know there are lots of mummies in Melbourne that are bubhubbers, maybe start a thread to have a catch up with other mummies in your area, to meet a local park or something, the kids can go off and play and you and other mummies can just have a chat... getting things off your chest is the only way to get through, keep us posted :hugs: :hugs:

[angcaltam]

hunny :hugs: to you!!

Thats horrible that you had to move due to violence from your neighbours! do you have any one else that you could turn to apart from you MIL, anyone??? I know there are lots of mummies in Melbourne that are bubhubbers, maybe start a thread to have a catch up with other mummies in your area, to meet a local park or something, the kids can go off and play and you and other mummies can just have a chat... getting things off your chest is the only way to get through, keep us posted :hugs: :hugs:

I'll second that. I really hope things start to look up for you soon. Lots of :hugs: coming your way.

[*Chels*]

How horrible for you and your family!!
Let me just say,you are NOT a bad mother!!
Have you thought about getting counselling for you and your kids?So whats the situation now?Will you be staying with your MIL permantly or finding your own place?
Im sorry you are going thru this!:hugs:

[Tam-I-Am]

Hi there,

Sounds to me like you're all going through a rough time. Sounds like you've has some awful things happen recently and that it has caused some stress reactions in all of you - It certainly DOES NOT sound like you are an awful mum. Just another person, struggling to get through!

Are you aware that there are Victims of Crime counsellors who work for free? They are available all over the place, and from what you've said, you would all qualify for the counselling - your children because they are secondary vicitims, and yourself because you're a primary victim.

Do me a favour, and call the Victims of Crime Assistance Tribunal of Melbourne (VOCAT). Explain your situation, and ask where you go to access counselling. If that doesn't work, let me know and I'll chase up some better details for you.

Hang in there, its going to get better from here on in.

[jess_live_die]

:hugs: so sorry to hear that i do hope everything runsout ok sometimes cring helps alot im here if u need to talk.