anyone else getting impatient? [Archive] - Bub Hub Pregnancy & Parenting Forum

cmd'smum

14-09-2006, 18:55

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!! :rolleyes:

I'm on the pill for 4 weeks as my fertility specialist wants all my hormones baseline before I start on Clomid and TTC again! This would've been our fourth month TTC if I wasn't on the pill! Can't wait till these four weeks are up (well less than 4 weeks now :rolleyes: ) Then its back to TTC!

:fingerscrossed: AF stays away for you!

Niki

14-09-2006, 18:57

thanks i keep seeing newborn and i get soooo clucky

:fingerscrossed: you concieve quickly

bubbles28

14-09-2006, 20:01

OMG! Yes bad, I can't handle it!
AF is due on sunday, so I have 3 more agonising days!
:fingerscrossed: for us girls!

jaydensmum

14-09-2006, 20:02

Im not currently trying but i do remember what it was like. Just try and relax and if its meant to happen it will. :yes: Are you going to test tomorrow?

LittleBoysRock

14-09-2006, 20:09

YES!! Me and it hasnt been a whole cycle yet!! :laughing:

Roxy76

14-09-2006, 20:13

YES!!! LOL AF is due Tuesday 19th and I too just wanna be pregnant!! (and it's only my 1st month ttc lol) shocking huh! hoping to nail it first time!! yes i sais hoping :fingerscrossed:

guess we can keep posting on bubhub to fill in time! the first part of the wait ended up being quicker than i thought, it is harder as it gets closer! :(

anyway, we will get there and hopefully lots of BFP's!!!!!!!!!:smiliedance:

Allgoodthings!

14-09-2006, 20:27

I think you become more patient as the months roll on!

My PCOS has me not ovulating at all. My last AF was July 05 - so its now, what, 14 months! That's 14 tries at conceiving I've missed out on that everyone else has had in the same amount of time.
We're getting on track now with a new (and better!) GP so Im not so depressed these days - I keep telling myself Im 14 months closer to my baby than I was!

I'm sure we'll all get there really soon - what doesn't kill us will only make us stronger (and much more patient mummys!)

Livy

14-09-2006, 20:39

Definitely getting very impatient :mad: have been off the pill since December and it seems like ages ago. I am 14dpo now - but I have up to a 19 day LP - so the 2 week wait is a 3 week wait for me! I get my 21 blood results back in the morning - so I am hoping that may shed some light. :fingerscrossed: for all us getting our BFP's very soon! :hugs:

JorBai

14-09-2006, 20:42

I just hate the 2 week wait. But honestly I cant be impatient yet, its only been 1 month so far/.

Good Luck to everyone thats been trying or a long time, :fingerscrossed: this is your month!

luckymama

14-09-2006, 20:55

yup thats me i am very impatient, this is our 11 th month of TTC, and i have almost lost it sooo many times, but i am now trying the relaxed approach, and i mean trying :rolleyes: at least now i can focus on a wedding, but it really is hard, esp when people you know are pg, but i am trying to be positive that it will happen SOON :hugs:

shellsbubs

14-09-2006, 21:02

YES! We haven't even been trying for a full month yet and i am already feeling impatient, hurry up!!!:)

sam's mum

14-09-2006, 21:03

Don't everyone hate me, but I have always found it easy to get pregnant. So this time it just bites that its taking longer. DD1 we decided to stop trying not to, and I was pregnant first month. DD2 (misc) took out the implanon, one period and then pregnant. (Sadly we lost her at 13 weeks) Had the D&C, one period and then pregnant with DS. With the breastfeeding it took a while for the AF to return, but I have had two now, and I am not pregnant.

I have to admit that I feel like a spoilt brat complaining about not being allowed to have another lollipop even though so kids don't have a slice of bread. :o

3 bambinos

14-09-2006, 22:34

Ooh yeah I'm impatient, I had no idea it would take this long as DS was concieved in the first month of trying. Each time I get AF its miserable as my cycles are 6 weeks apart :banghead: I am not good at waiting AT ALL

14-09-2006, 22:35

Somone needs to come up with a song "i wish i could fast forward time"
hah wonder how Cher would like that:rolleyes: :p

jess_live_die

14-09-2006, 22:43

i hope u all get ur wishes and fall preg i wish i could but with my luck so far aint gonna happen i have to kids and the fathers aint round one dosent even wanna know his daughter. but i get clucky wen i see little babys. i wish u all the best of luck.:fingerscrossed:

fozzie

14-09-2006, 22:57

I'm another one!! I'm only in my first month and it's driving me insane already DH is rolling his eyes as we speak :rolleyes:. I know I shouldn't be impatient and I'm lucky enough to have two great boys but I think that most women are the same and once the decision is made that's it you want it straight away.

Lots of baby dust to everyone :fingerscrossed: :hugs:

wantagirl

15-09-2006, 00:26

Oh yes, I am impatient! I have only been trying for 3 months. This is my 4th cycle, just had af last week. My cycles are long so I won't ovulate until the 2nd of Oct. Waiting for O is longer for me than the tww. I just hope I continue to ovulate. When trying for my last my af's disapeared for 3 years. Now I have them but they are anywhere from 30 days to 44 days. I don't know if I can do this forever this time around, it was just to hard to handle last time when it took over 2 years to concieve. Guess I just have to be positive. Good luck to af not showing..:wave:

15-09-2006, 00:39

I am getting a little impatient, wish there was really such a thing as immaculate conception, then i wouldn't have to actually DO anything to get pregnant! :laughing:

It's only really been a month of trying, so shouldn't be impatient, i just want to be pregnant now! lol

Lilith

15-09-2006, 06:18

Yep, Yep, Yep :yes:

Next month is 12 months for us so I guess it's time to change tactics and off to the f/s I go. I've enjoyed TTC :p but I guess there's only so many months ending negatively a girl can take.

emma2938

15-09-2006, 10:21

YES

I get what you mean. we are in our 6th month of TTC anhd last night i got a bit of pink tinged cm when i was checking my cp, and i went to bed and cryed. It was never meant to be this hard...surely??????? I just want to be pregnant! When I think about the number of women every single day getting abortions its drives me nuts. My baby is wanted so much and yet I cant get pregnant!

RoarsomeMum

15-09-2006, 10:53

YES!!!! I am sooo impaitent... and then I feel guilty for being impaitent.. I have regular 28 day cycles.. I look at the charts of some of you with such unpredictable looooong cycles, and feel greateful I have 12 chances a year...
then, on really bad days, I think about the last 60 odd cycles behind me, with no BFP. If I let myself think about it too much.. I dont think I would get up in the morning... Its such an emotional rollercoaster, with soooooooooooooooooooo many variables:banghead: :banghead:
I look at parents in supermarkets and wonder, "how did you do it"
I look at DH and I and wonder "why cant we do it"??!!
I just want to be a mum...

emma2938

15-09-2006, 11:05

Em,
have you gone and seen a fertility specialist at all? or are you just seeing what happens?

wannabemum

15-09-2006, 11:23

Hi everyone,

DON'T I KNOW IT!!!!:banghead:

I have been wanting to have a baby for the past 2 years, but due to being diagnosed with chronic fatigue syndrome 3 years ago, have not been well enough to start trying. I am now at a point where I am ready, I am coming off my meds (ever so slowly to try and avoid withdrawal symptoms, which are still getting me), and so as soon as I am off them...... Should be in a couple of months (trying for sooner)

It is just taking so long though, plus most of my friends just "keep falling pg accidentally", if I hear one more person say, it happened by accident I am going to :barf:
ALL THESE PEOPLE TRYING SO HARD AND THEN THERES THESE ONES THAT IT HAPPENS ACCIDENTALLY :mad:

but :fingerscrossed: to everyone, its a long road but one with a pot of gold at the end

nicoleE

15-09-2006, 11:31

I am extremely impatient! If i want something... i want it NOW! :D
The problem also is that I am also a huge control freak and like everything organised and under my control and of course when your TTC nothing is really in your control, particularly when you have PCOS!
Now I am on Clomid and am actually ovulating (O'd for the 1st time last cycle YAY :smiliedance: ) I feel slightly more in control, only because I know I am going to ovulate!

Im also finding the longer it goes on the harder it is getting (i thought it would get easier).. particularly as I have a lady at work who got married after me (this year) and fell prego very quickly, they hadn't even started trying yet! She said she felt guilty but I told her to just feel blessed... I hate seeing her around work though as she is really showing allot now, people keep touching her belly and I hear her talk about it... not to mention all the prego women and babies I see out in the street! :(

I know it will happen for me one day, not that I can imagine it yet, it is wiered to think about it actually happening!

Niki

15-09-2006, 11:37

:fingerscrossed: :fingerscrossed: :fingerscrossed:

goodluck to us all :hugs:

chicken

15-09-2006, 11:41

Yes!!!! I'm on cycle 15 TTC#1. I'm also a control freak and finding it very difficult to relax when everyone keeps telling us that DH and I are normal, and 'it will happen'. If we were normal, it wouldn't be this hard! And the clock keeps ticking, ticking.....

wannabemum

15-09-2006, 11:42

Nicole I am exactly the same!! Control freak and when I want something, I WANT IT NOW cause I get so impatient, haha
I have a pg girl who works with me too, and she has been showing since about 2 months (damn it), and everyday she talks about the bubby stuff she bought, and I am like, :gloomy: and :yelclap: at the same time, alot of mixed emotions at these times aren't there (our poor hubbys and partners) :hugs:

IT WILL BE OUR TURN NEXT :D

RoarsomeMum

15-09-2006, 11:43

Em,
have you gone and seen a fertility specialist at all? or are you just seeing what happens?

I PM'ed you, but wanted to say in here too..
have bit the big F/S bullett.. We are getting to old to wait and see now :(

wannabemum

15-09-2006, 11:50

CHICKEN :fingerscrossed: for you, it will happen!!!!!!!! :hugs: :hugs:

ETsMum

15-09-2006, 11:53

:wave: YES... ME TOO!!!!

Bellarose

15-09-2006, 23:40

Thank god I found this. You ladies make me feel normal !!!!!

We've been TTC for 4 months and its doing my head in. I was first ultra organised and monitored everything.. maybe baby, temperature, CM... Didnt work. Then I thought I should just chill out and not stress... didnt work.. Last month we have been BD every second day and I just found out this still hasnt worked. :(

I know it can take months... I know I need to stay positive.. but I just feel depressed. I cant help thinking 'what is wrong with me'?

Our friends are onto their second bubs. Its so hard to be happy for them, when on the inside I'm crying. :gloomy:

I've just got to keep my chin up... some days are harder than others.

Thanks for listening. I really am so greatful for this site...

Best of luck to all of you lovely ladies with TCC.

Vespera

16-09-2006, 00:10

Ask me 2 months ago and it would have been a loud resounding and kinda psycho yes but now its 6 months and counting and I cant do anything more than we are doing so I refuse to worry anymore.

It will happen, I know we are having 2 kids, I really want them now but if they arent ready yet then I can wait.

Going back to work has healped soooo much :D

Cheeky Little Monkey

16-09-2006, 01:29

Wow! It is interesting to see how many ladies out there are feeling so impatient about getting a positive result. It brings back memories of my period of TTC and I can fully understand your anxiety.

It took us 3 and a half years to concieve our DD (and it happened naturally might I add, after being told that the "only way" we would ever concieve was through IVF ICSI).
It used to break my heart seeing pregnant ladies growing bellies (and don't you see them EVERYWHERE when you are TTC!)
Everyone tells you to stop stressing about and and "it will happen" and you just want to slap them and tell them to bugger off......but in reality I guess it is true as it can happen.

Fingers crossed for all those out there who are wanting their baby wish to come true this month. It is the most wonderful feeling seeing that positive result and I wish you all the best of luck!

wannabemum

16-09-2006, 13:22

To bellarose and vespera, :hugs: to you.

Bellarose, its definetly your time. I know that a lot of people don't believe in them, but I find chatting with a claivoyant about this sort of stuff really helps!! Alot of ttc ladies also find that a clairvoyant can also give them advice as to why it is not happening as quickly as first hoped. Just a thought though :idea:

And vespera, a very mature approach that you have taken. :thumbsup: Its hard to keep your chin up during these times, but you are so right, if you are doing everything right, well then you just have to wait. Your little man or little lady can not be pushed, they will come when they are ready.....

:fingerscrossed: for all of us

chele

16-09-2006, 20:16

:fingerscrossed: Good luck to you all and wishing BFP to us all

:smiliedance: BFP:smiliedance: My beta is 29th and already I'm losing my mind
I sit on pc alot takes my mind off things........

:wave: chele xoxoxoxoxo

chubbybubby

16-09-2006, 22:50

I am not TTC but rather waiting to TTC. We plan to start in November but the wait is awful. I wish we could just do it now. I fell pg first time with DS but everyone keeps reminding me it doesn't always happen so easily. I just wish I could start trying so I knew where I stood!! Good luck and baby dust to all you TTC'ers.

wannabemum

17-09-2006, 10:15

chubbybubby ME TOO!!!! I can't start ttc until then either, and it is driving me insane :banghead:

I am :fingerscrossed: for you and me at this time, what are your cycles like???? :detective:

(and we are the same age too) WOOOHOOO :smiliedance:

jo-anne.36

17-09-2006, 10:23

:wave: hello there iam getting inpatient waitting for my donor friend to come knocking at my front door so i can get pg to and good luck with ttc jo-anne:thumbsup:

chubbybubby

18-09-2006, 01:41

To be honest, I have no idea what my cycles are like! Before I had DS, they were regularly 5 weeks long. I had super, super heavy periods and I would get so sick and sore I would have to take time off school/work. Since having him though, my whole body has pretty much packed it in! LOL! My cycles are getting more regular now but have gone back to approx 4 weeks. They are also much less painful or heavy. I went on the pill for a month a while back (needed to miss a period) and then came straight back off it so I am waiting to see what happens with this cycle.

HollyHotLips

18-09-2006, 13:50

I am impatient, TTC for nearly 4 months now although I wasnt ovulating for the first cycle.

What really makes me cross is that when I was on the pill all those years (17!) and paranoid I'd end up pregnant if I missed one single pill I obviously neednt have worried...! :mad:

Still, what's meant to be will be I guess...... Trying to be positive but I think I have PMS so feeling very sorry for myself.... :gloomy:

Butterfliez

18-09-2006, 15:47

Oh Holly, :hugs: for you that you feel better and that AF doesn't rear her evil head! How are those cramps going though hun?
Trying to be positive but I think I have PMS so feeling very sorry for myself.... :gloomy: