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JuliaL
10-09-2006, 10:14
Hi everyone, I am 5-6 weeks pregnant after going through our first round of IVF/ICSI in August. Obviously we are delighted and excited, but I am becoming increasingly anxious...I wonder if anyone else has had conflicting early pregnancy symtoms, or ones that just disappear?
I have been pregnant 10 years ago, and had morning sickness by about week 5 and this time, no sickness at all (I still feel like a glass of wine, but have to resist!), my dizziness has already gone and I am now just a little tired in the late afternoon. Even my breasts are not that tender anymore! To complicate things further, I had 13 follicles drained, so my ovaries were quite swollen and sore, so this has given me a bloated tummy, with twinges and small cramps around my womb area - which does nothing to reassure me that it's the pregnancy - could just be the ovaries going back to normal. I've had no bleeding or severe pain, but a friend had no symptoms either, but when she went for her 12 week U/S the baby was dead. I am so scared that that is what is going to happen to us (I wish she had kept that to herself till AFTER after our 12 weeks...:shame: ) and I am longing for a sign that tells me - YES I am still pregnant! My 7 week scan is a couple of weeks away, so it's a long wait...anyone else had an experience like this after IVF? I am trying to relax - we have done all we can - but with only 2 more embryos in the freezer, it's not like we have infinite options.
Thanks for listening and good luck to all for their IVF miracles.

Julia (38)

supamumma
10-09-2006, 10:48
Hi julia,

Congrats!!!!! I can relate to your story as we also fell pregnant after our first ICSI attempt and now have a 20mth old beautiful little girl. We're trying for number two right now and that's proving a lot more trickier to get the magical two lines but that's another story.....

With my pregnancy with DD I had no pregnancy symptoms except feeling faint around 13 weeks and the bloating you described after being abit hyperstimulated but that disappeared around 7 weeks. I often felt anxious thinking 'I just don't feel pregnant'. In some ways I think it would have been less anxiety provoking if I had been vomiting up every day ,sore breats and the like.Though when i have heard of some women's pregnancies they sound horrendous!

Try to relax ( easier said than done I know ) and enjoy the wonderful news you have. I know my anxiety levels went down a lot when I saw the heart beat and when ever we had our scans. It made it all less surreal!

I think when your pregnancy journey has involved IVF often it is so much harder to just relax and enjoy it because it has taken so much for you to get there, you are terrified it something will go wrong.But once you do get to the end and you see how real the bundle of joy is that is lying in your arms, well, no words can describe that...


Best of luck!

jo-anne.36
10-09-2006, 13:22
hello julia congran the your pgs but i can'nt not help you to much as iam still on my journy to crack the big one yet any way good luck to you :thumbsup: take it easy and try to relaxs jo-anne

Mel-Jane
10-09-2006, 18:22
Hi Julia,

Congrats on your pregnancy. I had hyperstimulation of the ovaries too and my docs said that it can sometimes be beneficial for the pregnancy. Try to enjoy the thought ( & reality) of being pregnant and I really hope that everything continues going well.

Good luck:hugs:

my babyemmy
11-09-2006, 09:01
Congratulations
All i can offer you hun is support if you need it,I was anxious from the second i found out i was pregnant with emmy til the second she was born,She was my first try too. so im not a help to you at all!I will try and make a time machine for you so you get to your 7 week scan quicker:hugs:

JuliaL
11-09-2006, 14:56
Thanks for all your support girls - I have got to count my blessings - we are really lucky to have hit the jackpot first go, (and maybe no morning sickness IS a blessing after all!) just need to leave it in the hands of the universe now. Will keep you posted!
Best wishes,
Jules xx