HowCrazyCool
14-12-2010, 08:51
Big vent:chopwood::chopwood:
So my goddaughter had nits. She was riddled with them. I did her hair, her mum did her hair.
Dsd was sposed to come over to our house about 3 weeks ago, but Ex said she couldn't because GD had nits. Yes we were a bit cranky (as she was being treated)
But i guess it's her choice.
So 3 weeks go by, saturday Dp goes to pick Dsd up from mums. She asks if GD is there and he said NO. ( i had no idea, i wasn't there )
I on the other hand was going around to visit My freind and GD. I went through her hair. Not a nit or egg to be seen. YAAAA!!! no nits. I bring GD around. Both kids play and have a great time. We go out and do lots of fun things.
Not an issue.
Until last night, Dp showed me a message Ex sent him. Saying she was angry she was lied to, we had no right to have GD around there. especially after last time. That if she had of known she would have come picked Dsd up.
:cantbelieveit::cantbelieveit:
We could not believe it.
Dp had no idea he was "LYING" and i had no idea i had to still ask her permission to have my GD and her daughter in the same house.
She has no nits. I still sprayed all out hair with tea tree.
So im guessing its going to be a big issue today.
I normally ask her where dsd is on Tuesday's so i can pick her up.
I am just going to do the same and when she starts me plead ignorance. Then i can tell her i understand how she would feel that she was lied to but that at the time Dp was none the wiser. And that i understand she would feel like she wasn't listened to last time, but we had no idea that even when GD had no nits that she still wasn't allowed around to our house.
So end vent. :cheerleader2::cheerleader1::cheerleader2::cheerle ader1::cheerleader2::cheerleader1::cheerleader2:
So my goddaughter had nits. She was riddled with them. I did her hair, her mum did her hair.
Dsd was sposed to come over to our house about 3 weeks ago, but Ex said she couldn't because GD had nits. Yes we were a bit cranky (as she was being treated)
But i guess it's her choice.
So 3 weeks go by, saturday Dp goes to pick Dsd up from mums. She asks if GD is there and he said NO. ( i had no idea, i wasn't there )
I on the other hand was going around to visit My freind and GD. I went through her hair. Not a nit or egg to be seen. YAAAA!!! no nits. I bring GD around. Both kids play and have a great time. We go out and do lots of fun things.
Not an issue.
Until last night, Dp showed me a message Ex sent him. Saying she was angry she was lied to, we had no right to have GD around there. especially after last time. That if she had of known she would have come picked Dsd up.
:cantbelieveit::cantbelieveit:
We could not believe it.
Dp had no idea he was "LYING" and i had no idea i had to still ask her permission to have my GD and her daughter in the same house.
She has no nits. I still sprayed all out hair with tea tree.
So im guessing its going to be a big issue today.
I normally ask her where dsd is on Tuesday's so i can pick her up.
I am just going to do the same and when she starts me plead ignorance. Then i can tell her i understand how she would feel that she was lied to but that at the time Dp was none the wiser. And that i understand she would feel like she wasn't listened to last time, but we had no idea that even when GD had no nits that she still wasn't allowed around to our house.
So end vent. :cheerleader2::cheerleader1::cheerleader2::cheerle ader1::cheerleader2::cheerleader1::cheerleader2: