Why Do i Feel Like this

[shorty_851]

I have all the symptoms of being precgent but tests are all negative.:mad:
Im have the food cravings the nausia and i constantly feel tired and im starting to look prgnent. i got my last AF 5 days afert the due date my cycle is 35 days so i never know when im O. My mother was 5 months pregent with me before she knew she was pregent with me and she still got her AF's which makes me think maybe i m but maybe im not.

We have been TTC for the last 7 months and still nothing. I have read on anoth erpost on this site that in scholl they teach you about how easy it is. Yeah right.

I get sick of looking around seeing young people bnot even trying to fall but do and dont keep the baby its makes TTC so much harder because i know that i can give a baby a life.

Im so willing to gve anything ago. i even bought the most expansive Lub you can find becuase i read on a website that most Lubs stop the sperm from swimming. This month is the first month i have trie it and hopefully :fingerscrossed: something will happen if aim not already am goign by the things im feeling and look

can anyone tell me if they think its a possiblitly

[abeckaj]

Have you tried getting a blood test?

That usually is more accurate. Otherwise you are probably similar to me - you want it soooo bad that your mind actually tricks you into having symptoms.

I was concentrating on TTC so much that for a few months my cycles were all over the place ) and i have always had 28 day cycles. The last 2 months i have tried to relax and not think about it as much and i have gone back to 28 day cycles.

Anythings possible though - just read some of the threads posted on this sight!

:fingerscrossed: for you either way!

[Jo9999]

I wouldn't think you are pregnant sorry although it is always a slim possibility.
You say you don't know when you are ovulating? Are you checking the signs (cervical, temperatures etc), have you tried using OPKs? If you are not doing any of these I'd recommend checking out www.fertilityfriend.com for some help on getting started. If you were taking your temps you would see your temperature drop as AF arrived and that would tell you for sure that you were not pregnant, otherwise if the temperature stayed up that's when you should consider going to the DR for further tests.
And some Lubs are not good for sperm, although you can get sperm friendly ones.
I know how it feels when it takes a while to conceive, I tried for 2 years before I conceived my daughter. And now have been seriously trying for around 6 months although have not used any birth control since she was born... this getting pregnant business is definitely not easy.
Good luck.

[RoarsomeMum]

It can be really hard.. and some days I feel just like you described..
Dont give up.. there is no Rhyme or reason to this...
I really hope you feel better soon..

[Cheekychops]

I often have symptoms that if I hadn't had a hysterectomy you would swear I was pregnant... my hormones however are all over the shop and my body doesn't metabolise them (the reason for the hysterectomy in the first place)... so I guess my point is that your body can do weird things but doesn't always mean you are pregnant.

Having said that :fingerscrossed: you are!! And also, I have heard of some people getting their AF while pregnant but your tests would more than likely be positive especially blood tests.

Good Luck!!

[shorty_851]

i know i was silly to think that but i think i just want this so bad i just want my family to be complete

[Cheekychops]

No - you aren't silly!!! :hugs: You are just hopeing so bad - that's all, and who know's stranger things have happened!!

[bubbles28]

I was the same as you last mth. I was so sure I was preg. I was so tired, had sore boobs, starting dry reaching and nothing...AF came.
Our minds are a powerful thing.
I hope you are preg and I have my :fingerscrossed: for you

[HollyHotLips]

I was the same as you last mth. I was so sure I was preg. I was so tired, had sore boobs, starting dry reaching and nothing...AF came.


Ditto, I think it's hormones as well, I know mine are still all over the place since coming off the pill.

Hang in there and try to relax about it, must admit I've not been so full on thinking about it non stop this month and it does help take the pressure off.

:)