cluelesss
24-11-2010, 22:23
My 16yo daughter has rather painful periods, relying heavily on ibuprofen and paracetemol every month. We have discussed for a couple of years about the possibility of using the contraceptive pill to regulate the hormones and this can reduce period pain for some women.
In addition to that, she has come to the conclusion that it would be better to start on the pill before contemplating sex, so that when does feel ready to start exploring such activities, it is one less thing to worry about. (Yes, I've done my best to reccommend condoms, and I am confident she'll follow that advice, but she wants to be doubly-protected because they do sometimes fail.)
I personally have very minimal knowledge on the pill because I came to the conclusion it wasn't for me and I don't use it.
So we finally made the visit to the doctor to get all the information so she could make an informed decision about what was the right option for her. We wanted to find out about side effects.
My daughter opted to see the doctor alone - but I did speak to the doctor briefly first letting her know what she was after. And the doctor asked if I wanted her to prescribe it for her, to which I responded if that is what she wants.
Apparently, once alone in the room with my daughter, the doctor behaved as if she had no idea what the appointment was about. And then after being told, was rather judgemental with her questions about my daughters relationship.
Also, the only information she was given about side effects was weight gain (the doctor said she would put on 1-2kg). Nor was she given instructions about when to take it (I'm under the understanding that it is important to take it at the same time every day.) She did however say that if one is missed, then one wouldn't be protected for contraceptive purposes for seven days. (I thought it was for the rest of the month.)
The doctor also made it clear that she disapproved. After speaking to my daughter and finding out about the lack of information she received, I later commented on this and stated that we were after information about side effects, and possible benefits to regulating her cycle. The doctor was mainly only interested in saying that she made it clear that she didn't want her to be taking it. She said that side effects weren't worth worrying about, and when I commented on the severe menstral pain finally added "Oh in that case it might be good for her".
We then went to the chemist to fill the script, and found out she had written it in my name not my daughters. A minor error, but surely not a problem. The one we were prescribed was Levelen. (The script is for a four month supply, and the pharmacy seemed confused that there were no repeats.)
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So this has left us full of questions. I'm concerned about side effects, especially with regards to messing with a developing girls hormones. She also has a really basic question - where does she start? The card has every pill labelled with a day of the week and the instructions say to start in the red section on the corresponding day of the week. The red section runs Mon-Sun with white (presumably sugar) pills running Sat-Fri so begining two days prior and the last two days in the red section are yellow (active) pills. The doctor had said to begin on the first day of the period with an active pill. Thus we are confused.
Also, when I took them (likely a different brand) many years ago, I was told the white pills were not necessary and simply to get you in the habit of taking a pill daily. Thus if you didn't want to, you could choose to discard instead of swallow those pills on the appropriate day. But the information sheet that came with these ones says that if you forget to take a white pill, take it as soon as you remember, thus implying that they are necessary.
In addition to that, she has come to the conclusion that it would be better to start on the pill before contemplating sex, so that when does feel ready to start exploring such activities, it is one less thing to worry about. (Yes, I've done my best to reccommend condoms, and I am confident she'll follow that advice, but she wants to be doubly-protected because they do sometimes fail.)
I personally have very minimal knowledge on the pill because I came to the conclusion it wasn't for me and I don't use it.
So we finally made the visit to the doctor to get all the information so she could make an informed decision about what was the right option for her. We wanted to find out about side effects.
My daughter opted to see the doctor alone - but I did speak to the doctor briefly first letting her know what she was after. And the doctor asked if I wanted her to prescribe it for her, to which I responded if that is what she wants.
Apparently, once alone in the room with my daughter, the doctor behaved as if she had no idea what the appointment was about. And then after being told, was rather judgemental with her questions about my daughters relationship.
Also, the only information she was given about side effects was weight gain (the doctor said she would put on 1-2kg). Nor was she given instructions about when to take it (I'm under the understanding that it is important to take it at the same time every day.) She did however say that if one is missed, then one wouldn't be protected for contraceptive purposes for seven days. (I thought it was for the rest of the month.)
The doctor also made it clear that she disapproved. After speaking to my daughter and finding out about the lack of information she received, I later commented on this and stated that we were after information about side effects, and possible benefits to regulating her cycle. The doctor was mainly only interested in saying that she made it clear that she didn't want her to be taking it. She said that side effects weren't worth worrying about, and when I commented on the severe menstral pain finally added "Oh in that case it might be good for her".
We then went to the chemist to fill the script, and found out she had written it in my name not my daughters. A minor error, but surely not a problem. The one we were prescribed was Levelen. (The script is for a four month supply, and the pharmacy seemed confused that there were no repeats.)
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So this has left us full of questions. I'm concerned about side effects, especially with regards to messing with a developing girls hormones. She also has a really basic question - where does she start? The card has every pill labelled with a day of the week and the instructions say to start in the red section on the corresponding day of the week. The red section runs Mon-Sun with white (presumably sugar) pills running Sat-Fri so begining two days prior and the last two days in the red section are yellow (active) pills. The doctor had said to begin on the first day of the period with an active pill. Thus we are confused.
Also, when I took them (likely a different brand) many years ago, I was told the white pills were not necessary and simply to get you in the habit of taking a pill daily. Thus if you didn't want to, you could choose to discard instead of swallow those pills on the appropriate day. But the information sheet that came with these ones says that if you forget to take a white pill, take it as soon as you remember, thus implying that they are necessary.