going out

[~Alicia]

Hi all you 20somethings :wave:


how often do get a night out? and what do u do?

[Cheekychops]

Maybe once a year :eek: :crying:

[*~alegna~*]

HAH!...What is that LOL....I haven't been out since I was like 3 months Pg & DS is 3 months now so thats like nearly a yr.:eek: :banghead: - I lead a truely rewarding & exciting life!:laughing:

[KarniF00l]

Once in a blue moon.. when i do go out, it's usually to gigs. The next time my shackles get to come off isn't until October 19th :laughing: :rolleyes:

[missmum05]

We go out like once a month and my Mum had dakota for a Night and we go out to have a few drinks and catch up with friends :smiliedance:

[Jem]

definitley not as often as i'd like!! hardly ever actually...quite sad :(

[FourAngelKisses]

Never....not even for my wedding anniversary. I live for Wednesdays though....grocery shopping day!!! That means a full day out of the house, LOL.

[Percy]

The only time i have been out was for my hens night and my wedding night.

We are planning a night away for our anniversary. the inlaws have already agreed to babysit! I cant wait!:smiliedance:

[skyejax]

unfortunately never. i too live for errand and shopping days

[EskimoMumma]

I dont like night outs anymore, i never have any fun anymore, day offs i love tho :D

[JATS]

I never went out before Tom was born, nothing changed afterwards.

Grew out of the party scene when I was 18.

[FourAngelKisses]

Grew out of the party scene when I was 18.

I never grew into it, lol.

[kymmy]

I used to be a homebody and a loner! Then I fell in love and since then I really cherish moments to myself. I never get lonely.
When its really quiet at night and every one is in bed I tend to stay up and just clear my head, knit and think.
What was the question?:laughing:
Oh, when do I go out? I love to go see bands but that is rare.
We have wonderful babysitters in our Mums but I don't take advantage of that. Occassionally we go out without the kids and its great.

[Ana Gram]

I go out at least once a month, if I don't i go nuts.

[kymmy]

I go out at least once a month, if I don't i go nuts.

That is why i am nuts!:idea:

[Mum2Bug]

Go out? Im yet to discover the meaning of those words:laughing:

[subaruforestermum]

HHHMMMMMM, well I too no longer to go out and have a few drinks, as I always think about my responsibilities at home as a mother.....

The only nights I go out, is when DP wants me to go fishing with him....and my mum looks after my son.......Not my ideal night out, but I must admit I do have fun, just kicking back and kicking DP's butt at catching fish...:laughing: :laughing:

Other than that, we are yet to go out on a date, or anything like that since bub was born 13 months ago. A little romantic time would be nice, so we could rediscover each other as individuals not just as parents, meaning have a nice romantic dinner and talk about other things other than home life, go see a movie.....even though we see each other every day and night, it is hard to not fall into a rutt....IYKWIM

[mimicj]

We have gone out once since our baby girl was born 4 months ago. I left a bottle of expressed breastmilk with my mum and she looked after both of my kids. We had a great night and we are going to try to have "date night" once a month. One month he plans it, the next I plan it. We are yet to try this out though! A bit hard since I'm still breastfeeding.:smiliedance:

[KarniF00l]

whats happening then??


A massive gig of course :D :smiliedance:

[gremily]

I never get 'nights' out anymore! The only time I'm by myself is grocery shopping for an hour and sunday night is netball. DF can't cope any longer than that:rolleyes: .
When we lived in SA we had both of our parents who would have DD1 at the drop of a hat. Now living in NSW it's kind of hard to do that anymore! I'm still bf DD2 which makes it a bit harder aswell and I'm not really into expressing so I have to be around somewhere near if she needs a feed. They're the times I envy bottle feeders:laughing: , anyone can do it for you, while getting someone else to bf you child is kind of, well, wrong!! (Although, a woman I used to work with was born in South Africa and she was 'wet nursed' by their maid. She's 40 something, not sure if they still do it).

Anyway, back to the original question, we have so many great pubs with bands playing there, and I think I've only ever been once before DD2 was born. I would LOVE to go again.....................one day:rolleyes:

[SweetSerenity]

Well im going to be honest.... I actually go out usually every second sat night as peter stays at his dads those nights.
I normally go out with my girlfriends...I do enjoy going out but i find it hard to stay up as late as them lol

[Milliner]

I went out on friday night for the first time in months and months I can't even remember the last time I went out before that. I was only gone for about 2-3 hours anyway.

[Cynara]

My last night out was the night I conceived (April 8th) My next night out is Feb 17th (My hens night) I really miss drinking... I was never a big drinker but really enjoyed having a couple of burbons with Matt on a Friday evening to wind down after working for the week. I use to go clubbing regularly but that has all ended now :(

[jaydensmum]

Hardly ever! :thumbsdown: I went out fir the 1st time in a yr 2 wks ago and i went clubbing! The people i used to see at this club still go there and wondered where i went. They were shocked to know that i had 2 bubs since they last saw me. :yes:

jaydensmum

[Kizmet]

Last time I went out was last week for one of my school friends 21st. Apart from that John and I try and have a date night and go to the worlds best chinese restaurant in wentworthville every fortnight but it doesnt always happen especially with our wedding coming up.

[blessedmummy]

sometimes get to go out, not much though, usually on a tuesday night my Dh(if hes not working) and i go to a young adults thing at church and my mum comes over to look after the girls,other than that, probably once in a blue moon! :(

[sleepyhead]

I dont go out at night,i hate messing up bubs bath ,bottle then bed routine. I just go out of a day and socialise.

[cheezelkat]

does running out to remember forgotten milk count? ;)

I haven't been out in SO long. I keep suggesting our cat looks after DS, but DP isn't keen :p

[kyannas*mum*]

we still reguly go out with bubs,

we are lucky that our circle of friends includes many children so going out is going for bbq, dinners and activitys like that etc that kids come to as well,

me and hubby sometimes go out clubbing when the grandparents babysit

but we honestly dont enjoy the club scene too much now and enjoy going to houses better:thumbsup:

[hotmumma]

Hi all you 20somethings :wave:


how often do get a night out? and what do u do?

well u know what!! we all dont get out often enough!! i go out when my mates come home for a visit and i usually have a great time! my hubby is cool with it and i let him do what he wants! as long as there is enough trust in your realationship i think we can go out wheneva we want!! as long as you dont forget u still have to get up to the kids!!!:banghead:

[neeshNgeorgia]

I'm just gonna add my two bob in...DF and i often get to go out, we have ppl begging to watch DD and they always come to our place to do it, there fore little girl doesn't mess up her routine (well little of routine she has) and the sitter wether its either one of our parents or siblings will stay at our place. I was 19 when i had DD and my mum, as a young mum herself, always said don't give up being young just because u have a baby. I didn't want to leave DD for the 5 months, which is just natural, but now she is 20 months old we can go out confident that she is ok at home with the sitter and we feel she is more confident with other ppl for it, and has never been a huge clingy baby, though she still loves a cuddle with mummy and daddy b4 bed!!