im preg, what now

[renfrog]

recently my partner and i decided to talk about the possibility of another bub (we have a 18month old daughter) we are i suppose you could say 'still in the discussion phase', but i did a test this morning and it looks like a positive result so i guess that means the talks are over.
im not sure how to feel about this, it was me who wanted another bub but i wasnt expecting this for a few more months yet. on the one hand im excited on the other i feel stressed out, scared and a little nauseated.
this is what i wanted so why do i feel so worried, i going to do another test but i think i am preg and in that case i would only be 3weeks gone so i have a long way to go. another prob is im overweight and in my first preg i had gest diabetes so i was going on a diet to prepare for pregnancy, in the vain hope i didnt get it again but i will have to wait and see.
what to do what to do :confused:

[H&B'sMum]

First of all congratulations on your bfp. I can see why you are a little apprehensive about being pregnant and the first thing I think you need to do is to tell your partner and then go to the Dr so together you can get your pregnancy confirmed and talk about your health issues.
It's great idea that you have already planned on the diet that you need to stay health during your pregnancy.
Good luck with everything and have an uneventful 9 months.

[OopsieDaisy]

Congratulations!!

[Mischief]

Hey, dont get so down on yourself! No wonder you are feeling worried and concerned!

I'm at the start of my first pregnancyand my emotions are all over the shop...sometimes I feel so excited and the next minute I am depressed! So dont be worried, no doubt some of your worries and concerns are from the hormones!

Having a second baby when you are still very much in care mode for your first little one much be a very difficult time! But if you have been talking about it...at least you know you hve your hubbies support!

Best of luck! I hope everything turns out fine!

Kat

[FamilyMum]

I don't think your being silly at all. The same thing happened to me. My son was 18mnths and my husband and I had talk about having another baby so I stopped the pill and 4weeks later I found out I was already pregnant. (Unfortunetly I missed carried pretty early on). But I think for me it was the shock. It sounds silly because my husband and I talked about it. But I still had this voice in the back of my head going, am I doing the right thing?
To be honest with you, now looking at it, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Everything happens for a reason.

Congradulations and all the best
Theresia mother of
Iwan Jan04
DH Shaun