hubby's changed hes mind

[sexy_minx]

Hi,


Not long ago like a week or so hubby said we could maybe start ttc as we think my pcos has gotten worse, thats fine but last night he changed hes mind he doesnt understand much about pcos and he doesnt understand that it gets worse as time goes by and so on, he wants me to go to the doctors again to hear what thay have to say last time i seen a doctor was back in 2004 and she said that it would be a good idear to have my family over and done with by time im 25 i was 18 at the time ill be 20 soon so to me time is ticking, im worried that if we go to a new doctor thay might not say the same thing and thay might say my ovaries are fine and i can wait in ttc till im 30 im so scared im gonna miss out on the big family ive always wanted. i cant see the other doctor that i seen back in 2004 as i have moved 2-3hrs away from where she was so im starting off with all new doctors blah im so mad at DH all week i been busting my balls in reading things to help us in ttc and hes like its the net you never belive what ppl or websites have to say on the net 90% of it is **** anyways...well not all doctors know much on pcos when i was DX with it the doctor had to get a book to tell me what pcos was she didnt know!!! omg what am i gonna do! i had my hopes all up now hes just gutted me

[blessedmummy]

hi! must be hard! maybe try and tell DH how you feel about it? maybe that would help? i dunno.. its hard thing.. cause its both your and his decision.. hope this helps in some way..

me25
Dh25:kiss:
Emily3:smiliedance:
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[Mischief]

Hey SM

You are in a really hard place at the moment.

There have been some good studies that show a low(er) carb/GI diet can help reduce the symptoms of PCOS though. Here is a link to one of the many lots of information on it http://preconception.com/resources/articles/lowdown.htm

You definately need to go and see a doctor again though. Explain in no uncertain terms that you WANT to have a larger family and tell him or her what you were told before. They should be able to get your previous records from your old doctor too!

Maybe if your hubby sees it in black and white he will change his mind again. Its a really difficult situation you are in though, because if you were to get pregnant and he isnt ready, it will put your relationship under alot of strain (something you really dont want when preggy or a new mum).

I hope things work out for you. XX Goodluck! If you get to the Dr you should ask for a referal to a specialist!!!

Lots of hugs!
Kat

[Grizabella]

Oh Hun! So sorry that this is happening. Maybe you could try and find a doctor with who is up to date with PCOS. Maybe you could see if any of the girls here on BH, who suffer from PCOS, are in your area and know anyone you could go and see? Hope it all works out for you!!! (((((HUGS)))))