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bunnymum
12-08-2010, 17:14
Hello Ladies,

I know that the accuracy of determining gender via ultrasounds these days are more than 90% which is quite high.

Just after 20 weeks of my pregnancy (i'm 33 weeks now), i've had a couple of gender scan at my routine check up at the doc's office.
I was pointed out a scrotum, yep, i was told it's a boy! Last week i went there again and asked for another confirmation, my doctor again said she was sure it's a boy because she could point out the scrotum from a potty shot angle. However, the potty shot was soooo girly (exactly just like what i've seen a couple of times previously) though that makes me wonder whether it was actually a boy or not! If it's a boy i was expecting to see the classic turtle. She also added she was sure the penis was hiding and 'stuck' between the umbilical cord. therefore it was not present when she showed the potty shot image to me.

I probably don't have doubts that it's a boy because: 1) no labia folds, 2) no three distinct lines that show classic girl bits.

But i am still clinging to the hope that it could be a girl because: 1) it was not the classic turtle shot. 2) scrotum did not look bulbous enough. 3) the potty / butt bits look very clean with no portruding bits. 4) Have heard stories that labia can be a bit more filling out by this stage, that it's so swollen and resembles a scrotum.

I don't have any image of the ultrasound unfortunately :(

From my description, does this lean more towards a boy or a girl? i know it's hard to judge without an image.. It could be it's 100% boy because i'm sure the doctor knows more than i do and she uses ultrasound machine everyday!! Plus the absence of the penis must not be taken into account that it's a girl - any experienced doctors would know this and the fact that the 'scrotum' does not look like a labia it makes it a strong evidence it's a boy!

However judging from my point of view, i could also call this a girl because of the absence of the classic turtle... it's driving me crazy because i'm still not believing this is a boy :confused:. Maybe that's why there are still people being mistakenly told it's a girl where in fact it's a boy because a potty shot can look so girly and the classic turtle is absent.

Poodlepop
16-08-2010, 09:14
Hi,

I did my 20 weeks scan last week and the Dr told us 90% Girl but I am not convinced as she told us the baby was a bit shy but she is not seeing penis anywhere therefore it's a girl

I am very fussy and would like to know 110% sure. I don't want to buy girlie stuff then a little baby boy comes out:D

I think the best way is to do a 3D or 4D scan???? that way you'll find out for sure????

River Song
16-08-2010, 09:21
i was unconvinced at first...more emotionally then anything else because i could only see myself with 2 boys...not with a boy and a girl. I was so determined and hopeful that this would be another boy lol

I have had lots of drama's this pregnancy...so have had many scans...it took me asking during 3 different scans to finally accept this was a girl.

Good sonographers look for way more then a penis to decide...and as much as sometimes there are mistakes...i would err on the side of trusting them....or schedule another scan.

bunnymum
19-08-2010, 11:18
Now I'm so err with the gender result my doc told me. At first i was OK if i were told we would be expecting a boy (as much as we had a preference for a girl). It was just during the last two ultrasounds i wasn't so convinced being told boy because i didn't see the penis and scrotum as clear as day light. I thought by around this stage a boy's genital shape would have been sooo obvious ie classic turtle.
It's now driving me a bit crazy because i don't want to reach the final stage of pushing this baby out and hoping this would be a girl. Only if my baby would cooperate more and showed me his 'goods' clearly then i could probably move on and accept it's a boy :p

bunnymum
19-08-2010, 11:20
Smileygirl, I just noticed your due date is the same as mine!
Congrats on your baby girl and wish you a safe delivery and a healthy baby!

River Song
19-08-2010, 11:34
thanks bunny - we've had a very dramatic pregnancy so far but things have now settled down and we have been told we'll be allowed to go to 40 weeks (yay) but they will induce then if i don't go early. I hope you have a great birth as well!

isn't it funny how we doubt a diagnosis that we don't want lol I would not have 2nd guessed them if they had said "boy" lol

Do you have anymore scans planned? I have one every 2 weeks lmao and can see myself asking each time for them to check...although i did relax and start buying some pink things and my babyshower is this weekend and people have been told its a girl and i am sure i will be drowned in pink!

Boys are wonderful and loving and perfect. Your lil man will bring you years and years of joy. My DS is now 6 and is the light of my life and as i said, i would have dearly loved another. I will love my DD and i am sure she will be delightful in a million different ways.

Oonly about 6 weeks till we meet them....yippeee:smiliedance::smiliedance:

Poodlepop
20-08-2010, 11:49
When is the next scan after you do the 20 weeks scan???

tinker bella
20-08-2010, 16:24
When is the next scan after you do the 20 weeks scan???


My doc said he likes another done between 32 - 36 weeks to check growth and condition. I'm 35 weeks next week and booked in for mine.... can't wait! :)

bunnymum
30-08-2010, 14:24
thanks bunny - we've had a very dramatic pregnancy so far but things have now settled down and we have been told we'll be allowed to go to 40 weeks (yay) but they will induce then if i don't go early. I hope you have a great birth as well!

isn't it funny how we doubt a diagnosis that we don't want lol I would not have 2nd guessed them if they had said "boy" lol

Do you have anymore scans planned? I have one every 2 weeks lmao and can see myself asking each time for them to check...although i did relax and start buying some pink things and my babyshower is this weekend and people have been told its a girl and i am sure i will be drowned in pink!

Boys are wonderful and loving and perfect. Your lil man will bring you years and years of joy. My DS is now 6 and is the light of my life and as i said, i would have dearly loved another. I will love my DD and i am sure she will be delightful in a million different ways.

Oonly about 6 weeks till we meet them....yippeee:smiliedance::smiliedance:

Thanks smileygirl! I am approaching my weekly appointments with my ob and as much as i'd like to confirm the gender scan again, but i think she'd get a bit irritated if i kept on insisting..and it would show that we're not happy with a boy or vice versa not wanting a girl.... Last time at 33 weeks was the second time we asked her to scan the gender... in the end she said, look i'm SURE it's a BOY.........

Now i'm leaning towards boy more than girl, provided that i didn't see clear girly bits (no three lines, etc). And although the pee-pee may be hiding, but the doc said to me she can't go wrong when she sees a scrotum... well.. i'll find out in the next four and a half weeks and let you all know here :)
Maybe it's just me wanting to have a baby girl... but i'm just soooo curious why i have not seen any clear boy proof if this baby is meant to be a boy.:baby: