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shaz82
09-08-2010, 11:06
I am scared I am carrying another boy. Now dont get me wrong I love my DS to bits and would die for him. But I am feeling like I want another little girl just because I seem to have a way better relationship with DD than DS.
DS and I just dont get along. He is a great kid that is smart and well behaved for others etc. Does well in school and all that. He just likes to push my buttons which drives me mad.
I know deep down that if it is another little man he will be different but I am still scared about it.
We werent going to find out the sex of this one but due to how I am feeling (and some other reasons) we are going to find out next week.
Has any one else felt like this?

ilovelucy
09-08-2010, 13:15
There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way your feeling! I'm feeling the same, we have a beautiful DD but would love a DS. Mine's not old enough to push my buttons yet, but since DH only wants two, we both want our pigeon pair. Our last one was a surprise (which was the best moment of the whole pregnancy/ birth when DH told me we had a girl). I'm convinced this one is another girl as well, which think will affect DH alot more than me, he desperately wants a 'little apprentice' to go with his 'little princess'. I have my scan tomorrow and i am sooo unsure whether to find out (i think i'll be disappointed with not having the surprise at the end of my labour).

By the way Shaz, we're due the same week at the same hospy so i might see you in the ward, hopefully with my son and your daughter :)

HTH