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juniorbear04
19-07-2010, 17:39
Hi all,
I am a brand new forum friend and really need some helpful advice. As a mother of 3 boys i couldn't b prouder, however my husband and i decided in april that we would reallly like to try for a girl.... so we have been o an adventure of charting bbt an cm, tried the diet and supplement road, however i am truely hopeless at taking meds on time!! We have been to our doctor and decided that we woul try using a lime and distilled water deuce.

Today is day 14 of my cycle and i am fairly certain my cycle is 29days. i would hve expected to ovualte between tues and wed and we hd decided to deuce tonight as you are supposed to try earlier for a girl. However throughout today i have had the telltale ovulation pains and discomfort. My cm is creamy but not emcm and m bbt has gone from 36.18 - 36.31 - 36.40 - 36.49 but i have not registered a + LH reading.

My dilema is do we try tonight regardless of the ovu pain or do we not try at all this month. I feel a lot of presure as withmy husbands job we can't try again till oct!! I just dn't now if using a deuce cancels out the need for really strict timing or if the timing is still a critical component???
I appreciate any assistance or advice anyone can give me :)
xo

muls
19-07-2010, 18:20
I can't help you at all but just found out that i'm having #3 boy and was hoping for a girl so just wanted to wish you the best of luck!!!
:hugs::goodvibes::hugs:

juniorbear04
19-07-2010, 18:29
thanks for ur thoughts!! we always love what we get as mums but it is hard sometimes to want something so much when u have no real control over the outcome :)

congrats on ur upcoming boy though!! nothing more wonderful then my boy cuddles!!

DoneAndDusted
19-07-2010, 20:41
I'm sorry I have no idea!! But have you been to the 'ingender' forums?? Obviously you have a deadline and this is all I can think to advise... some very knowledgeable women there!

GL:goodvibes:

juniorbear04
20-07-2010, 21:08
thanks for the advice. we checked one out. all the various ideas were very interesting, although maybe a little scary also!! my husband and i thought we were getting really serious about it till i read some of the methods on there but it has given me loads more to look into so a big thanks!! :)