fireflies4
26-06-2010, 22:44
So I am having a dilemma...
I have to get a list together of who I want to invite to my baby shower and I have an issue...
I don't get along very well with my SIL and MIL anymore. We used to, until some stuff happened earlier in the year (But thats another thread all together).
SIL and I are only just back to speaking.
MIL is still really b!tchy and what not towards me. She made a few comments when we told them I was pregnant that made it seem like she only cared about the pregnancy so she could show it off to her friends. She saw me & congratulated me at 12weeks.... And I am now 23 weeks and haven't seen her since then....
Anyway.... Do I do the right thing, according to DF and my sister and invite them to my baby shower and put up with them being there??
Honestly they wont know I am even having one unless I invite them.
I don't know what to do. I have other family members I want to invite but will feel awkward like me if SIL & MIL are there.
HELP!!!
I have to get a list together of who I want to invite to my baby shower and I have an issue...
I don't get along very well with my SIL and MIL anymore. We used to, until some stuff happened earlier in the year (But thats another thread all together).
SIL and I are only just back to speaking.
MIL is still really b!tchy and what not towards me. She made a few comments when we told them I was pregnant that made it seem like she only cared about the pregnancy so she could show it off to her friends. She saw me & congratulated me at 12weeks.... And I am now 23 weeks and haven't seen her since then....
Anyway.... Do I do the right thing, according to DF and my sister and invite them to my baby shower and put up with them being there??
Honestly they wont know I am even having one unless I invite them.
I don't know what to do. I have other family members I want to invite but will feel awkward like me if SIL & MIL are there.
HELP!!!