What the Ex thought about the new partner?

[Idonttrustjelly]

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[OneMore4Me]

I moved on like a month after so of course the ex was sh!tty! Not alot he could do but, he calmed down after a while...DD actually told him lol. DD told me about his gf too but I didnt care.

[RmumR]

i met DF about 6mths after splitting with X. He didn't say much at first - well how could he as he left us for an affair he'd been having.
I told him i had met someone, i told him when DF met DD, let him know when DF moved in etc. The only big big hurdle we had was DD started calling DF daddy, it wasn't encouraged by us but she kept it up. X found out and hit the roof, told me he wasn't giving DD back after an access visit etc etc went on for ages.
In the end i told him that DD was more than happy with having 2 daddies and she is the one who has to deal with it and be happy about it. He came around and now doesn't have a problem with it.

X was originally quite codl to DF the first time they met. the next he was better and now they are at a shake hands and exchange niceties when they do happen to see each other which is not very often as i mostly do change-overs myself.

[SweetSerenity]

For me, I got into my first ever relationship after I split with my ex husband more than 2 years after I left him.

That relationship is the one I have with my now DF :goodvibes:

My ex husband didn't have a problem with it as he was about 6months into his new relationship, which has since ended.

He had a few issues once DS and I moved in with DF, the whole "I'm his daddy" thing...for him it was more of a bruised ego as he was hardly involved in DS up until the past year. I think he changed due to DF coming in the picture.

I can't really complain though, it hasn't been too bad.

[Benji]

I feel the same SweetSerenity, I really do feel like this is my first 'real' relationship (one where I'm treated like a human being *shock horror* lol).

My ex didn't seem fussed about me repartnering and even moving in with DP as he'd already moved on himself with a really nice woman.

I only had problems when DS decided to call my DP Dad too. Eek. XDP carried on like a pork chop and told my DS that he's "not allowed" to call my DP his dad, which I thought was terribly unfair as he came to that conclusion on his own and, honestly, my DP *does* play the role of dad. He's started calling DP dad again :goodvibes: and he's happy having two dads, I tell him he's lucky!

[RunningWithScissors]

My XDP is an a-hole. He makes everything as hard as it can be for us, even though Im married to DH now and quite clearly not going back to him after 6 years!

[SassyMummy]

I don't think my ex cared tbh.

I think he was a little hurt when DD started to enjoy spending time with DP, and went on about him being her "extra" or "other" Daddy... but it wasn't encouraged by anyone and was just what she came up with on her own, so there's not much I could do about that.

The ex only briefly met DP too.