Frustrated!

[taylahmummy]

Hi girls!

I just needed to vent somewhere and I am sure someone can help ease my worries!!! I am 26 weeks today and feeling huge! I have put on 15kgs since I fell pregnant and have about 5cms left of growing upwards and that was what the doctor told me at my last check up 2 weeks ago. I am actually feeling excellent other than the usual complaints. I am about the size and weight when I had DD. To look at I am all baby!

Anyways, I am becoming increasingly frustrated by people telling me how tiny I am! Today a girlfriend said to me "Geez...I think they are going to be small". So now of course I am worried. It is like people are trying to scare me!!! I don't know how to respond to their comments!! And of course I don't have another scan for 2 weeks to check their growth so I will be worried sick until then!!!

I will be sooooo happy when they are here! I hate the worrying and other peoples comments!

[Georgias Mummy]

Hi girls!

I just needed to vent somewhere and I am sure someone can help ease my worries!!! I am 26 weeks today and feeling huge! I have put on 15kgs since I fell pregnant and have about 5cms left of growing upwards and that was what the doctor told me at my last check up 2 weeks ago. I am actually feeling excellent other than the usual complaints. I am about the size and weight when I had DD. To look at I am all baby!

Anyways, I am becoming increasingly frustrated by people telling me how tiny I am! Today a girlfriend said to me "Geez...I think they are going to be small". So now of course I am worried. It is like people are trying to scare me!!! I don't know how to respond to their comments!! And of course I don't have another scan for 2 weeks to check their growth so I will be worried sick until then!!!

I will be sooooo happy when they are here! I hate the worrying and other peoples comments!



Do you think your friend was trying to make you worry or do you think she was trying to make you feel great about how good you look?? Maybe if she hasn't see you for a while you were small to what she had imagined or even maybe you don't look big as your all baby???

Is she a B****y friend or one you can count on? Usually this is how you can tell if they mean good/bad... Most people know that twins are generally smaller so maybe she was rolling with that. My BF is have one atm and has put on what you have now (due July) so by the sounds of your description you sound like you look great..

I don't think you should worry and maybe you should talk to her about your concerns if they are bothering you that much, rather than get frustrated with people who are offering you love and support maybe express your concerns..

Does this help at all???


Take Care :flowerz:

[mumbron]

Taylahmummy

Just letting you know that i get the same comment oh you look small but i just ask well how big do you expect me to be? i guess people aren't always around people that are having twins so don't really know any different except they think we should be twice the size of a single baby which isn't the case! don't get upset over that comment Twin's aren't normally the size of a full term baby.:hugs:

I hope you feel better soon remember the end is getting close:smiliedance: