Nearly 3 years on and grieving more...

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Hi

I lost my mother in a car accident nearly 3 years ago now. It just seems to be getting harder to deal with. Particularly now with having my own daughter, I am always thinking how great a g'ma my mum would have been. She was able to enjoy being a g'ma to my nephew for only a month :(
It's just so sad to know that my DD will miss out on knowing her and that my siblings & I no longer have insight into our past. I can't ask her what I was like at this age or when I walked or got my teeth etc. My sister asked the other day whether she'd had the chicken pox & I wasn't sure.

Death is such a terrible thing & grief is so lonely.

[Ana Gram]

:hugs::hugs: As it is nearing Mother's Day, I expect you are feeling it quite a lot right now.

Grief does not have a time table of when it gets better. But the people around us do expect that. Grief can get harder as time goes on but you do learn to deal with it better with time. :hugs::hugs:

[Myztiks#1Fan]

i have no advice but thought you could do a with hug :hugs::hugs::hugs:

[notquitesupermum]

I lost my mum in '07 to melenoma
I know exactly how you feel

She missed meeting my husband, my wedding day, my pregnancy and once he is born, her first granchild

It breaks my heart

:hugs:

I want to ring her and ask her stuff and tell her stuff and hear her voice

There are lots of wonderful people in my life who give me the strength I need and have done all they can to fill the hole in my heart

but for better or for worse she was mum and no one else ever will be

Sorry this doesnt offer any advice or anything, just wanted to let you know your not alone, I feel it too :hugs: