JiminyCricket
22-04-2010, 21:01
Im annoyed with my DP .
Bit of background...he has 3 kids from a previous relationship that we have major care of and we have a
1 yo child together.
I want another baby down the track in about 6 years (if i still want to at that point).
He understands that i would like another baby of my own and that i want to try for a girl (all 4 kids are boys).
He is annoyed that i dont want to go on the pill or use hormanal contraceptives , but he doesn't want to use condoms :banghead:
We are currently using the billings method and so far its working.
Dp just wants to get a vasectomy and i said that ''ok give me one more baby and you can have your vasectomy and we wont have to worry''.
And his response was '' If you have another baby you wont wanna have sex anymore anyway so whats the point'' :eek:
Yes my libido is not high , but perhaps that has something to do with the fact i am flat out looking after HIS 3 kids and my own baby, he works full time but I do almost everything else around the house.
GRRRRRRR
We wouldn't be in this position if he and his ex hadn't have had 3 kids all a year apart.
Seems unfair that he gets to have 3 kids unplanned then realises that its not easy when his ex ****es off and leaves him with all the kids and now he doesn't want anymore.
:crying::crying::crying:
Bit of background...he has 3 kids from a previous relationship that we have major care of and we have a
1 yo child together.
I want another baby down the track in about 6 years (if i still want to at that point).
He understands that i would like another baby of my own and that i want to try for a girl (all 4 kids are boys).
He is annoyed that i dont want to go on the pill or use hormanal contraceptives , but he doesn't want to use condoms :banghead:
We are currently using the billings method and so far its working.
Dp just wants to get a vasectomy and i said that ''ok give me one more baby and you can have your vasectomy and we wont have to worry''.
And his response was '' If you have another baby you wont wanna have sex anymore anyway so whats the point'' :eek:
Yes my libido is not high , but perhaps that has something to do with the fact i am flat out looking after HIS 3 kids and my own baby, he works full time but I do almost everything else around the house.
GRRRRRRR
We wouldn't be in this position if he and his ex hadn't have had 3 kids all a year apart.
Seems unfair that he gets to have 3 kids unplanned then realises that its not easy when his ex ****es off and leaves him with all the kids and now he doesn't want anymore.
:crying::crying::crying: