thanks guys

[munchkin05]

well ive been really feeling really down about this single mother thing at the moment as if anyone has read my other posts would know

well last night i was really down
but tonight i went and seen him to work out child support and well i relised i am strong

I THINK I MAY HAVE BROKEN HIS NOSE

well what happened was once we signed the agreement he turned into a ****** and started saying he wasnt going to do things he promised to do so i took the agreement and said i wasnt going through with it he pushed me against the wall and was trying to take it away from me so i hit him in the jewles and pushed him away i really thought he was going to hit me he grabbed me and pushed me to the bench stepping on my nice glass bowls and broke them :crying:
then before i knew what was happening i hit him and blood came pouring out and all he kept saying was i think you broke my nose while i packed up the few things i had left him

ok im not proud of this well to be honest i am a little bit :o
but he has been walking over me for the last 6 years and i really thought he was going to hit me tonight (but he didnt ) i think he was in such shock that i had hit him
i know violence doesnt solve anything and i guess now its going to be even harder to deal with him but i feel like im on a new path right now and i feel good

i know theres no chance of us getting back together i guess i have known this from the start but just didnt want to believe it but i guess it just put it all in place now

thanks guys for all your support and hugs
they have helped alot

i know that 2morrow is another day and it may all hit me and i wont know why i did what i did and i may turn into an absolute mess but thats something that i wil have to deal with it if it happens

[Mum2Bug]

Hey Ange.

Wow girl! You are right. Violence doesn't solve anything. But I have to admit to being proud of you. I know you have been really down lately about the whole 'single mum' thing but I think now might be the time to stop thinking of it like that. You have just proven to yourself that you are stronger than you thought!

Being a single mum isn't that bad. I find I quite prefer it this way sometimes. It's harder as all the responsibility is now on your shoulders but don't see that as a bad thing. Just think of it as being a way that you get to make sure Ben has the best life at home with you and that you can now make the decisions you want to make without having to consult others first.

Your ex has proven he is unworthy of you in many ways and I think you have finally turned a corner in seeing that. Well done. One step at a time is all you need to take and one day you will wake up and see that the sun is shining a brand new day down on you!

:hugs: to you for everything you have been through.

[LilShenanigans]

I bow down to you!!
You may feel guilty tomorrow, but what if he had hit you and you didn't do anything?? so WELL DONE!!

To everyone else, I don't agree with violence, but if I was being thrown around like that... I would've done more then break a nose!

Back to topic.
Think about all the positive things, YES you make YOUR OWN decisions! NO you DON'T have to iron somebodies elses clothes, You DON'T have to clean other people's dirty dishes! The Laundy basket will be lighter!!!
And if he's anything like my ex's, there will be NO STREAK MARKS IN THE TOILET!!! :laughing:

Hold your head high hunny!:D

[Grizabella]

Hey Ang

CONGRATULATIONS FOR STANDING UP FOR YOURSELF!!!!

How dare he try to harm you physically! You had evry right to hit him if you felt physically threatened! I just hope that he has learnt that you ARE a strong woman and won't put up with that kind of treatment. What a pig.

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Let me know if you need anyone to chat to or hang out with etc etc
Love ya!

[little mermaid]

WOW!! I am so proud of you, you did what you had to do being put in that position. Good ridense(sp) to him if that is how he treats you.

Hope you are ok today:hugs:

[♥My Innocent Angel♥]

:hugs: Good on you for standing up for your self no one has the right to make feel weak or inferior or physically harm you!!!!!!:yelclap:

i dont think what you did was voilence it is called self defence you felt threatened and scared and you did what you had to do so good on you

i hope you are still feeling strong and if you ever want a friendly ear im a great listener :D

:hugs:

[bearsmummy]

Hi hun... well i must admit that im the same... i dont believe that violence solves anything but im very proud of how you stood up for yourself and finally realised what a strong woman you can be:hugs: you shouldnt feel bad at all... you were just protecting yourself.

yes tomorrow is a new day and we can only grow stronger from our life experiences. At least now he might realise that you cant be pushed around.

You are a great lady Ang and deserve the very best in life, dont you ever forget that.:hugs:
It might not be known to everyone that knows me on here but i once was a single mum to Jake before i met Blake... so if you ever need to chat... im always here and you have my numbers.

Hope today is a little better for you:p

[MeeG]

:hugs: for you firstly,

you stood your ground and you should be proud of your regained confidence, im a young single mum to be and had alot of issues with my ex who likes to "threaten me" with silly things and when i was about 14 wks pregnant he pushed me and knocked me on to the ground, at that point i realised how horrible he was but i still wanted him:thumbsdown: but later on realised people like that dont deserve people like US:thumbsup: ,

i say good on you, violence is not the answer but sometimes some guys jus need some sortin out lol... all the best

[MeeG]

:hugs: for you firstly,

you stood your ground and you should be proud of your regained confidence, im a young single mum to be and had alot of issues with my ex who likes to "threaten me" with silly things and when i was about 14 wks pregnant he pushed me and knocked me on to the ground, at that point i realised how horrible he was but i still wanted him:thumbsdown: but later on realised people like that dont deserve people like US:thumbsup: ,

i say good on you, violence is not the answer but sometimes some guys jus need some sortin out lol... all the best

[munchkin05]

today im still feeling so much better

i was going to ring him to say sorry but then i thought about it and well im not sorry

so he can make the step to contact me to find out how our son is

ive got a legal aid appoint on wednesday to get custody sorted out so hope it all goes my way

[bearsmummy]

Glad your feeling better today Ang :)
Your right... you shouldnt feel sorry hun, hope the appointment goes well for you on wednesday:yes: