Anyone else feeling alone?

[Gribel]

Well, here we are again.
It's a Saturday night, DS is already in bed sleeping, nothing on TV, family and friends out and about or not online yet, just me sitting here all alone bored and feeling sorry for myself....:gloomy:


Anyone else feel the same?

[Mum2Bug]

I know how you feel. I feel that every night while Im waiting for someone to log on or ring me. Its a dangerous thing because then I start remembering all the things i USED to do on the weekends and I have to stop myself from wishing my life hadn't changed so much.

Admittedly I should probably use the time to do some housework but lately Im just not feeling that energetic.

:hugs: to you from a fellow sufferer

[tyler's mum]

i hear ya loud and clear:yes:

as much as i love being a mum, i do wish i had someone to share my life with iylwim,, everynite when tyler go's to sleep its just ME alone once again with nothing to do but wish i had some kinda life some where to go some one to see i have never felt so alone then i have since becomeing a mum,,

i dont want to sound like i hate being a mum i love it tyler is my world but every day every nite is the just all the same

[Gribel]

Yep:yes:

I have a friend in melbourne i chat to EVERY NIGHT on msn, how sad is that but I lover her deeply and can talk to her about ANYTHING..haven't even met her yet!!! :laughing:
And all my friends in town are either out, just had bubs or obviously better things to do than hang out with someone on a sat night who's housebound!

No wonder depression rates among single parents are so high LOL
And as you said, as much as we love being mums......:yes:

At least we know we are not alone and have Bubhub to comfort us!:yelclap:

[tyler's mum]

thats ture there is always bub hub,, there is no one on my msn 2day, my mate i always chat with has been sick all week so havent spoke to her in a while,, :(

[*Sparkles*]

Yes I know how you feel. I am at home by myself alot, my DH works long hours and gets grumpy when he is tired (like today). The internet is my outlet as I work from home and I don't have many friends. No one hardly ever rings me for a chat or pops in for coffee and I miss that. My family are all in the UK and DH's family are all here in Melbourne but I don't see them alot as everyone is spread out. My MIL does ring quite often, which is nice.
*Sigh*, anyway I am hoping once I have the baby I can join a playgroup and get out and about with him/her a bit and meet other mum's in the area. I really want to start having a life!!

[Issey]

I am home too, my DH has been out Thur night, Friday night and now tonight :banghead: . I sometimes feel like I am a single mum when I am really not. He thinks he shouldn't miss going out because I cant :mad: .

I have the ironing to do and clear a pile of washing off my bed, exciting sat night isn't it.

I stare at my little boy sleeping and I just love him so much that I realise he is all that matters:hugs: .

I love doing day things and joining groups to meet people, have met some great people through bubhub:smiliedance:

[tyler's mum]

its not the day that are the hard part its the nights well for me anyway,, you can go met mum's, go for a walk go the park, but at nite when bub is alseep thats when i relize im alone and i have no one to share my life with beside my daughter,,

i have a great support team with my mum, dad and sister but as much as i love them it gets a bit much spending every day with them iykwim and not even that just goin to be alone i end up goin to get tyler so im not in bed alone

[Gribel]

Hi Tam

you are absolutely right, the days are always ok, sometimes I'm run off my feet, between play- and mothersgroup, music classes, meeting other mums and friends, shopping and so on, there is not much time during the day. But as soon as night comes, that's a complete different story, especially when DS goes to bed. :sleeping:
I'm the same, I take him out of his cot and into my bed so i have some sense of closeness.

I also have the support from my mum and now from DS grandparents (DS Dads family) - they only found out last week that DS exists - and he is already 16 months! But that's a different story LoL :ecomcity:

Anyway, i'm here if you feel like a chat, my msn address is gri_bel@hotmail.com

chat soon :thumbsup:
Belinda

[♥My Innocent Angel♥]

hey all i know its been said b4 but i hear ya so much the nights are the worst i love my dd but its so hard on your own and though i live with my parents again they are a great support but its not the same as a partner or spending time with friends bubhub has become my saviour from heading down the depression road because of all the support you recieve and the friendships made near or far :yelclap: yay for bubhub

would love to chat to you all so pm anytime im always floating around:)



P.S. Cant wait till wed Gribel :ecomcity: very excited over here :D