TTC, but not trying....going with the flow

[luckymama]

i thought id start this thread for others like me, who are going to TTC, but not try, and just go with the flow, hope others would like to join me :D

[collyspark]

Hey k,

I just wanted to say goodluck with taking it as it comes! :hugs: When are you going to start? i might just join you!

x

[drewid]

I'm with you :)

We have been TTC since Andrew was born, with no success as yet. I have an non-existent cycle, hopefully only because I am still breastfeeding (only once a day now though). So I have no cycle to chart, no CM to be seen, so theres really nothing I can do BUT go with the flow!

Hopefully Andrew will be fully weaned in the next few months and if my cycle doesn't return quick-smart, I have given myself a deadline of when Andrew turns 2, to go to the doctor and get some help with the matter.

I'm so envious of the people that fall pregnant easily. Sigh.

[jacks mum]

what a great thread.

we fell in April this year but the mc in July. So we decided to enjoy life - a few drinks, motor bike riding, boating - all the things restricted when pregnant. If nothing happens within 6 months then we will start 'trying'.

Hopefully having the easy going attitude is on our side but we'll see how we go

[wantagirl]

I wish all of you best of luck and am sending baby dust to you!

[V8]

Yep count me in - we are going with the flow too! :fingerscrossed:

[chicken]

All the best to you Doula. I'd love to join you, but know I won't be able to. We just hit our 1yr anniversary of TTC, so no way I can just 'go with the flow' any more!

[CinderElla]

Hey,

DP and I stopped "trying" about 3 months ago, after about 11 months, when we found out DP might lose his job soon, and are now "going with the flow". I was gonna get the implant put in about 2 months ago but the Dr went overseas and the next month they couldn't get me in (I couldn't make a appointment as my cycle is to iregular) so I have decided that if it is the time it will happen!

[DB&O]

I am not exactly TTC just yet but might start in the next few months :yes:
Ciao,
Brooke.

[ETsMum]

Yeah.. count me in too!!! Less disapointment this way hey!! :hugs:

[Bel1978]

People ask me if i am trying... my reply is i dont like that word when it happens it happens, yes i want one now but i have not gotten to the point of charts etc and will just go back to the Ob when we are pregant...

[auntka]

Hi all,
DF and I have been ttc for the past 3 mths but have decided also to go with the flow and when it happens it will also but since we are getting married in Jan 07 and I did the silly thing and got my dress already that its going to happen when we least expect it good thing that the dress is about a size or 2 too big in the waist and fits right everywhere else ;)
:fingerscrossed: for everyone!!

[borntobemummy]

we were taking this approach, but now that AF has returned, we can really get into TTC, I'm so excited!! But, at the same time, we will try to keep the attitude of going with the flow, kinda have to when we are planning on leaving it in God's hands:o

[littlejo]

Ooo, this is exactly us! I have stopped taking the pill, and we are just going to take it as it comes.

I still find that as I wait for AF, I am wondering if it will show up etc, and imagining all kinds of things that could be pg symptoms... But trying to not obsess about it!