chubbybubby
03-08-2006, 00:06
With my first son, I had a LOT of trouble breastfeeding. I had heaps of milk and really wanted to BF, but every time he came near me, I would POUR blood (I mean LOTS of blood) from my nipples and when feeding, the pain was excruciating. I was in hospital for five days and recieved lots of advice and help, and my health nurse was also a BF expert, but no-one could help me! Everyone said the pain and blood would go away - but it didn't. I would tense up when feeding, often in tears, so Harry would tense up, and it was just a disaster. After 6 weeks of pain and blood, it settled down a bit, but then Harry got a nasty cold and could not suck properly. So I gave up - I felt that feeding should be a bonding time, but it ended up being so painful that I truly dreaded feeding him. I figured it was better for both of us to bottle feed, and allow our relationship to grow - I did not want to resent my baby. And Harry certainly hasn't suffered from being bottle fed!
Anyway, we are hoping to have another baby next year and I really want to try again. I am not going to stress about it like I did with Harry - if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen - but I want to give myself the best chance! Anyone have any tips? Is there anything I can do to prepare my body for breast feeding? I have really small boobs (its not fair!!) and no matter what people say, I think it makes it harder! Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Anyway, we are hoping to have another baby next year and I really want to try again. I am not going to stress about it like I did with Harry - if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen - but I want to give myself the best chance! Anyone have any tips? Is there anything I can do to prepare my body for breast feeding? I have really small boobs (its not fair!!) and no matter what people say, I think it makes it harder! Any advice would be greatly appreciated.