It can only get better from here!

[kitty75]

Hi Everyone

It's been a few months since I was here I lost my first pregnancy. However the very next month found myself pregnant again. I am 12 weeks next week and 3 weeks ago my partner and I parted company. It seems that the impending birth of our child is all too much for him and well I have been left holding the baby you could say. I have not shared this information with many people (my parents and best friend) I am 35 and don't really know what to think. I used to have really strong ideas on single parents and believed it would be better for a child to be raised in a two parent stable relationship (like the one I was lucky enough to have from my parents). So lots of mixed emotions have been going around in my head. Just wondered if anyone else had a thought. I am due 3/10/10.:ecomcity:

[Teley]

You're right - it does only get better from here:yes:.
When I became single during my pregnancy I was also confused as I too used to have strong ideas about single parents. But....it's really not all that bad:D! Glad your ideas it are changing.

[kitty75]

Thanks for the words of support. I have little choice but to change my silly ideas because my baby is far to important to stuff this one up.

[Ra Ra Superstar]

hey

Im 35 weeks pregnant and have been single since i was about 28 weeks pregnant. Since being away from my XP i have realised that i can give my bub a far better family life away from him (there was violence involved in the relationship). I worried so much about what people would think of me but im just beyond caring about that now because i'm happy being out of the relationship and i have to stay strong for my bub :) and yes it does only get better.....hard at first but hang in there and try to stay positive :)