info on non payment of cs nd visitation

[butterflyantigermummy]

hi
i would just like some advice.firstly my and have been seprated for a year and things we ok with us and he was paying child support.

he got lad off last month and isnt looking for work(his excuse is hes going on a holiday begiing of march so cant) and want claim centrelik so therefor not paying chid support.

he use to have th kids every second weekend with me roppng and picking them up and supplying all the nappies ect.now ourson has just had a operaion so can go to his house for a few weeks but i woul like to now if legally i have to send the kid when he pays nothingand supplies only food when he has them.

me on the otherhand i doing everything for them and tudyin to sart my own business so they can have a better future.

oh and he hasnt seen his son since h day of operation on tues and ds was asleep then

[~BEXTER~]

So you want to keep the kids from seeing their Dad just because he isn't paying child support at the moment?

[Fuchsia!]

Yeah sorry, you can't hold the kids back because of payments. As much as it annoys you and how wrong it is, you can't deny the kids from their father.

But i would say to him if he wants them he has to supply his own items like nappies and what not. You should have to pay for the kids things while they are in his care.

[Benji]

Yeah sorry, you can't hold the kids back because of payments. As much as it annoys you and how wrong it is, you can't deny the kids from their father.

But i would say to him if he wants them he has to supply his own items like nappies and what not. You should have to pay for the kids things while they are in his care.

yup! Don't supply anything it shouldn't be an EXTRA expense for you.

Just hope that once his CS debt racks up he will eventually pay.

It's tough, I know :hugs::hugs: Heck with him being u/e at the moment he could help you out a heck of a lot more so you can get working on your business.

[butterflyantigermummy]

i dont really want to top himjust for not paying its a build u of things really.

he only takes jobs thtlst a few months and then doesnt go on looking or g on centrelink for a few months.

i send the kids to him clean and dressed.he sends them back grotty,coverd in dog hair with evey single item of clothing covered in dog hair so i have to wash them all.our ds went in hospital on tuesday and the whole time ds was in having his operation he was yelling at me about tt our 18mth old dd then when i went to ds in recovery fell asleep in waiting room instead of watching our dd.thakfully my dad came in just as he fell asleep.

he normally has them every second weekend from fri night till sun arvo but 4 times now he has called me to pick them up on sat arvo cause he wants to go to the rugby with mates and get ****ed.

it just doesnt seem fair that he can do all this and i still have to let him see them.
p.s he has also 3 times forgot he was having the kids and gone out drinking while ive been outside his house with two crying kids trying to get in touch with him.sorry just very annoyed

[Maia]

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[Fuchsia!]

You need to take this up with the courts. If you don't think he is caring for the kids and neglecting them, then you need to get a court order.

Have you got a court order in place?